1. Personally, I think love must have a bottom line, that is, we can't do anything we shouldn't do, because college students are also students, so we must do our duty as students and have our own bottom line.

2. Don't live together, because after breaking up, your may have a bad reputation. Although it's not as biased as before, and people who may get married in the future don't mind, I think it's worth it. I think so, but it's not necessary. The most important thing is that you must not live together behind your parents' backs, because the consequences are very serious. But if you meet your parents, they can live together if they agree, because living together will expose many shortcomings and accept each other's feelings. And the beauty of distance. Don't live together, meet occasionally. Besides, if we live together, there is no place to go.

I remember a favorite blogger gave a lecture and said, "Casual love is a principle I have always adhered to. I always think that love is beautiful, especially when we like each other, so life is boring. I don't want to break my principles. I will either be independent, strong, enjoy freedom, or fall in love to add icing on the cake to my boring life. " ? When I saw it at that time, I thought what he said was very reasonable. I think if we really talked, we shouldn't talk casually, because it means that when we are really not together, you won't regret it, because at least you really loved each other.

4. There is also that if your love is not valued, I always think that the authorities are blind to the beholder.

In a relationship, many times you can't tell the situation when you are in it. If your friends and parents are not optimistic about this love, it means that they have seen many bad things that they can't see in love. Then I think we should consider them carefully. If these problems are not principled, they can still be changed, so they are not problems. If not, don't continue, not only love, but also other relationships. Be sure to stop loss in time and let others go.

Also, never talk about your ex when you are together. Your predecessor is also the mark of your past life, so you don't have to hide it. Two independent and honest individuals can get along to ensure a long-term relationship, so don't say too much when there is no need to say it. If the object wants to talk to you, just say so, don't take the initiative to share it on weekdays, and don't deliberately hide anything.