First, there will be all kinds of people in the university. Of course, a dormitory will be randomly assigned to a dormitory. This is destiny. Some people have a good personality and get along with everyone, but some people have a great personality and don't like others. It must be lucky to get along with several people in the dormitory, but most girls' dormitories must have several personalities and are unwilling to make friends. A little friendship. Second, because boys and boys will quarrel because of boys, girls will fall apart because of boys. A dormitory has at least m-girls. In the same class, it is inevitable to meet an equally outstanding boy. From then on, there was another rival in love in the dormitory, that is, she was no longer a roommate. Although there are not many such examples, they are commonplace. Third, the behavior habits are not used to the dormitory. Several people come from all corners of the country. There are different growing environments, it should be said that we all have our own habits and hobbies, but the usual behavior habits will always make some people dissatisfied, especially health problems or some small details! Girls will start cold violence especially because of these details, and even ignore each other! How to deal with dormitory relationship 1, work and rest with roommates in a unified way "Keeping quiet while others are sleeping is the most basic education", this sentence appeared on the topic of girls' dormitory in Weibo, and it seems that many people have experienced this bad worry. Therefore, all members of the dormitory should try to unify their living time and reduce the gap between work and rest. If something really happens, members who get up early or go to bed late should also try to reduce the influence of sound and light on their roommates. 2. Don't form a "clique" in the dormitory. Treat everyone equally. Don't favor one over the other, make friends with some people and alienate others. It's easy to make other members of the dormitory unhappy and think that you disdain to associate with them. Therefore, in the dormitory, we should try to keep a balance with everyone, try to be inseparable from our roommates, and don't engage in "small groups." 3, do not infringe on the privacy of roommates. Everyone has his own secrets and enough curiosity. We shouldn't try our best to explore the privacy of roommates. When the other party turns a field into privacy, it has a special sensitivity to this field, and any topic that tries to break into this field is not welcome. It is especially important to note that you must not rummage through your roommate's clothes without his consent. Why is the relationship between college girls' dormitories not good? Because there are differences from all over the country and different habits of work and rest, they like to keep everything in their hearts and don't like to say it, which leads to deeper misunderstanding and cold war. I spend most of my time in the classroom in senior high school. I go straight back to the dormitory to sleep after studying at night. Some of them can go home as soon as they are close to home, reducing the time in the dormitory and reducing conflicts and contradictions. When you are in college, plan what you want for a few years and work hard for this goal. As long as you are right, don't care what others say. You are laying the foundation for finding a job after graduation. If your roommate is difficult to get along with, just be polite. Anyway, go your separate ways in the future! Everyone has different living habits and personalities. We sleep alone. Four people come from three provinces, two from Hunan, one from Chongqing and one from Fujian. To me, they belong to the uninhibited school. Everything they do is informal. They talk loudly, shouting from time to time, watching TV and making phone calls, even if they don't understand their hometown dialect. The dormitory is simply a market. She is always self-centered. When she sleeps, no one else can make any noise. When others are sleeping, she keeps talking and always lets others do what she likes. She never considers other people's feelings, nor does she do whatever she wants to others. Only by respecting others first can she be respected by others. To sum up, there are always so many people in each dormitory who don't do well in dormitory hygiene and don't pay attention to personal hygiene, especially those who love cleanliness. Living with such people is simply torture. They won't do anything. They are just lazy, and her roommate gives her a father and a mother, which is justified. I really can't stand such people, because everyone's personality and habits are different. Living together will inevitably lead to differences, so we should be tolerant and considerate of each other. But many times, when I can't stand it, there will be contradictions, so it is very common to have differences. All kinds of reasons still come down to the disagreement between living habits and personality. Why is the relationship between college girls' dormitories not good? 1. Stay friendly. Students and friends from primary school, junior high school and senior high school all come from nearby towns and know each other very well. They grew up playing together and were familiar with each other. However, in college, students come from all corners of the country and live in different environments, just because they came to the same university with almost the same scores and were randomly assigned to a dormitory. It is difficult to have a heart-to-heart relationship in a short time, and the relationship is not necessarily harmonious. What you need to do is to get along well with your roommates and not look up every day. There are many things that need your roommate's help. Help each other together. You can tolerate many things. There is no need to be in a hurry. Depend on your parents at home and test your friends when you go out. One more friend, one more road, and we can help each other again in the future. Second, don't stay in the dormitory often. Dormitory is a place where roommates have complicated relationships and can't always see the light. In order to take care of roommates who get up late, you can still hear the sound of playing games in the middle of the night. You can do anything except study, so don't stay in the dormitory. The main reasons are as follows: College time is very important, and the complicated roommate relationship is beyond our control. Don't be stubborn in intolerable circles and don't force relationships. Then be yourself and don't pull a long face for the small dormitory relationship. There are many beautiful things worth pursuing in college. University is an extremely important period. Don't wait until after work to regret it. There is no such free time anymore. Make good use of it. Dormitory is difficult to learn, and it is also difficult to learn in it. Besides, there are only sleeping, playing games and complicated dormitory relationships in the dormitory. Bian Xiao regretted choosing to study in the dormitory during the final review week. Resulting in low review efficiency. Everyone brushes their mobile phones, and the final review is average. You should still review in the classroom. Quiet environment, high review efficiency, everyone is reviewing nervously, and you won't play and brush your mobile phone in that learning atmosphere. To sum up, dormitory is not suitable for study, and study is not suitable for dormitory. Think of the dormitory as a place to rest, and don't spend a lot of time and energy on the so-called dormitory relationship. After all, you will only stay for four years. After four years, everyone's reunion will be different.