You are not timid, maybe you are not good at grasping opportunities, paying attention to observing life, finding good aspects in life, and trying to tell your friends about these good aspects, so as to open up the current situation that your circle of friends is too narrow.
Sophomore, don't worry about going to any company. Maybe some of your friends work outside, but that doesn't mean how good he is. You just need to determine your next goal, whether it is postgraduate entrance examination or work, and then make your own specific life plan.
Avoid: don't blindly follow other people's advice.