I participated in a news training before, and taught in the form of online teaching. The group has 30 students, 3 administrators and a spokesperson. A ***34 people.
When I first checked in, four students were late, and they all gave the same reason: there were too many groups to find.
This is very strange to me. Can this be a reason?
Then they explained that there were too many groups and they had to screen them one by one. Every time they brush to the bottom, the bottom will be placed on the top. They are very upset.
Not to mention how many of these groups can be used, it doesn't seem like setting unimportant groups as "Do Not Disturb".
I think too many groups either make people smart or stupid. If there are too many groups, the time you spend on them will increase. We can accept some information while others can't. This is the self-information management in self-management. It is enough to give yourself nutritious and valuable information.
Grouping categories should also be distinguished in many groups. By occupation, there are lawyers, media and teachers. By stages, there are classmates, colleagues and former colleagues; According to educational background, there are soft-shelled turtles, soft-shelled turtles and overseas soft-shelled turtles; In addition, there are customer groups, parents and girlfriends. Only by sorting the categories can you better identify the information you want.
As for one of the four students mentioned above, he added nearly 50 WeChat groups. Usually when the phone is turned on, it will "beep, beep, beep". At that time, he didn't know the function of "Don't Disturb the Message", and he didn't know this measure of flashing back.
Too many other groups will also cause a problem: missing a lot of valuable information and receiving a lot of junk information.
The social purpose of joining a group is mostly event-driven. Every business trip will add at least one WeChat group, which is convenient for temporary small teams to communicate, break the troubles caused by information asymmetry and achieve the best information transmission effect. During the business trip, we were very busy, some gave out red envelopes, some gave out red envelopes, and some grabbed red envelopes. After the business trip, the group was abolished.
Surprisingly, one day I praised a friend, brushed it and found that another person was also praising that person.
"So they know each other? How did they meet? "
Ask carefully, it turned out to be an "acquaintance relationship" established through a temporary circle of friends. It turns out that after the temporary group stops information interaction at a certain moment, the members of the group will still develop friendship privately, which will still have an impact on the network structure of potential friends for a long time.
In reality, everyone goes their separate ways and is embarrassed to say hello when they meet, but as long as they blend into the WeChat group, it is a passion. Sometimes we disdain to call "hello" in reality and only pay attention to calling others "handsome guys" in the group, which is followed by a few seconds of carnival.
This is a very interesting way of communication, but also a very dangerous way of communication.
Wechat group is different from QQ group. The latter is mainly related to veteran cadres, and they don't often shout it out when they meet, but the WeChat group is different. Wechat group has the characteristics of WeChat, cross-platform communication, support single and multi-person participation, and send voice, pictures, videos and text through mobile phone network. The main users of WeChat are mostly male business people. To put it simply and rudely, WeChat group is also your money bank.
If you have more money, you will always be afraid, and sometimes you will be entangled. Which group should you pay more attention to? Which group is most useful to you? When will you pay attention?
Wechat group is a platform for group communication and interaction. If used well, it will increase the feelings between groups. If it is not used well, it will bring trouble to the normal life of group members. Therefore, it is necessary to clarify the group rules, let the group owners standardize the group members, choose the right time, and interact at the right time to effectively enhance the feelings between groups.
WeChat group chat is not "small talk", try to choose topics that group members can talk about, and don't "bombard" without restraint; WeChat group chat is not a "private chat". If only two people chat with each other, try to avoid chattering in the group. Wechat group chat should pay more attention to time and method. Chatting day and night will inevitably affect the normal rest of group members.
Different people have different needs for different information acquisition. For example, a cultural scholar will definitely be interested in cultural information, and will certainly have a good chat when encountering similar topics, but what will he do if he is accidentally dragged into a scientific WeChat group by his good friends? Cold salad! Ha ha.
This is a very embarrassing thing. Friends want you to get in touch with their friends, but they are disgusted. If the continuous promotion of friends circle advertisements has already made some friendship "stale", please don't let the endless WeChat group chat hurt the friendship!
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