1, the most suitable method for the public, or some people don't want to exercise their eloquence by investing money, just look for every opportunity to tell stories, humor and jokes to others. When it comes to everyone being moved, you can tell others calmly, and your eloquence is not much different. However, in the workplace, or in the process of applying, improving your eloquence is the real practical value.

2. How can I improve my eloquence?

I think we should start from the following aspects:

First of all, eloquence is practiced. Don't be shy. You should know that everyone has similar qualifications. If you have stage fright, others will feel the same way. You should seize every opportunity to show yourself, give yourself confidence, believe that you can do it, speak it out, and every exercise will give you great courage to start the next time, plus you keep summing up and accumulating. In the long run, you can stand out in all future occasions, speak freely and prove yourself.

Secondly, if you speak with content, you can attract others to listen in social occasions and some workplace occasions. You always let others have some benefits or produce * * * sounds in the process of listening to you, then this kind of speech is successful, and others will be willing to listen to you and communicate with you. Similarly, a good speaker must be a person who is particularly good at communication. He should also learn to listen to others. As the saying goes, go out to see the sky, go in to see the face. Therefore, when you speak, you should learn to look at the expression of others when they listen to you, so as to change the content and tone of your speech in time. Don't talk to yourself. This is the most failed speech.

Third, it is very important to pay attention to your sense of rhythm when you speak. Some people talk very fast, just like popping beans. Often after she finished, others didn't reflect on what she said. Speak slowly and loudly, and you will find that people will pay more attention to what you say, feel that everything you say is from the heart and has been carefully thought out by you, and people will think that you are responsible for what you say. In fact, writing is not necessarily easier than writing an article. If the article is not well written, it can be revised, but once it is said, it will be more difficult to revise it. We often feel that even if it is the same meaning or even the same sentence, people who can talk can make you happy, and people who can't talk can make you dizzy.

Finally, we should learn more from those who can talk and listen to others. There is a western proverb that God gave people a mouth and two ears to listen more and talk less. Listening is the most rewarding thing. Constantly enrich your internal knowledge, constantly learn from the strengths of others, and face every social and work occasion with a confident and modest heart. Even if you don't do well enough, as long as you work hard and have sincerity, I believe that over time you will become a master of speaking and communication, bringing a lot of happiness to your career and life!

3. How did Carnegie exercise his eloquence! ( 1)

Learn from others' experience.

Carnegie devoted almost all his life to helping people overcome their fears and timidity in conversation and speech and cultivate them.

Courage and confidence. Before the "Dale Carnegie Course" began, he made a survey to get people to talk about it.

The reason for attending the class, what I hope to get from this eloquence speech training class. The results of the survey are surprising, most of them

The central desire and basic needs of several people are basically the same. They replied, "When people want me to stand up,

When I am talking, I feel uncomfortable and scared, which makes me unable to think clearly, concentrate and understand myself.

Say what. Therefore, I want to gain self-confidence, be poised, stand in front of the public and think what I want.

Summarize your own ideas in logical order, and talk about Kan Kan in front of public places or social people in Kan Kan, which is philosophical and makes

People are convinced. "

Carnegie believes that in order to achieve this effect and acquire the skills of public speaking, we should start training from the following aspects.

Practice yourself.

Draw courage from other people's experiences. Carnegie believes that under no circumstances or in any state, there is no

What kind of animal is a natural speaker? In some periods in history, public speaking is a delicate art, and we must be careful.

According to rhetoric and elegant speech, it is extremely difficult to be a natural public speaker.

It takes hard work to realize it. Now we regard public speaking as an expanded dialogue. The old conversation,

The active way, the sound of thunder, is gone forever. We have dinner with people, go to church,

Or when watching TV or listening to the radio, I like to hear straightforward words, words conceived according to common sense, and exclusive conversations with us.

Instead of talking to us empty-handed.

Speech is not a closed art, nor is it as easy to learn knowledge as many schools, and it must go through many courses.

It takes many years to beautify the voice and study rhetoric hard. Usually it's easy, as long as you follow some.

Simple rules will do. Carnegie has a profound understanding of this. He is in the YMCA of new york.

When the club started teaching students, it taught them the methods of lower grades, which he learned when he was in college in Vallenborg, Missouri.

The way is similar. But he soon discovered that it was a big mistake to teach adults to do business in freshman year.

It is also useless to blindly imitate speakers Webster, Burke Pitt and O 'Connor. Because what students need is

Not like that, but I have enough courage to stand up straight and make a clear and coherent statement at the next business meeting.

Report. So he threw away all the textbooks and communicated with those students with some simple concepts.

Well, until their speeches are expressive and popular. It really worked, because after that, they went back.

Come on, I want to learn more.

When Carnegie was alive, thank-you notes could be piled up. Some are from industrial leaders, and some are.

Some come from governors, congressmen, university presidents, celebrities in the entertainment circle, and some come from housewives, priests and the elderly.

Teachers, young men and women, and some skilled or unfamiliar workers, trade union members and universities from all levels of supervisors.

Health and business women and so on. All these people feel the need for self-confidence and the ability to express themselves in public.

Only in this way can others accept their own views. After they reached their goal, they took the time to write to Carnegie and thank him.

Express gratitude.

Mr Ghent, a successful businessman in Philadelphia, once invited Carnegie to have lunch after class. dining table

In fact, he leaned forward and said, "Mr. Carnegie, I have avoided giving speeches at various parties, but now I am elected."

As the chairman of the board of directors of a university, he must preside over the meeting. Do you think it is possible for me to learn to be open in this half century?

Speech? Carnegie said, "Sir, you will succeed."

Three years later, they had lunch in that place again. Carnegie mentioned his previous conversation and asked about his initial prediction.

Whether it has been realized. He smiled and took out a small red notebook from his pocket and showed it to Master Carnegie.

The speech schedule for the next few months. "The ability to make these speeches, the happiness gained during the speech, and my interest in them.

Society can provide extra services-these are the happiest things in my life. "He admitted. Then,

Mr Ghent proudly played his trump card again. The people in his church invited the British Prime Minister to come to Philadelphia and live in a house.

Teach the conference to speak. The British Prime Minister seldom comes to the United States, and Ghent is in charge of introducing this politician.

Sir, it was this gentleman who leaned against this table three years ago and asked Carnegie if he could speak in public one day.

Where's the text? In Carnegie's view, his speech ability has improved so quickly, which is the same as his psychological quality and self-knowledge.

Become closely related.

There is a doctor named Curtis. He is an avid baseball fan and often goes to watch the players practice. Soon, he and

The players became good friends and were invited to the party of the team.

After the waiter brought coffee and candy, he invited several famous guests to take the stage to "say a few words". All of a sudden,

Without prior notice, he heard the host announce: "A friend from the medical field came tonight.

I specially invited Dr. Curtis to come up and tell us about the health problems of baseball players. "

Is he prepared for this problem? Of course, and it can be said that he is the most fully prepared person for this problem.

Because he studies health care, he has been a doctor for more than 30 years. He can sit in a chair and tell the people sitting on both sides of Kan Kan.

We can talk about this all night. However, asking him to stand up and talk about these issues is only in front of him.

A few people, that's another question. The question overwhelmed him and his heart beat faster.

Double it. Every time he meditates, his heart stops beating immediately. He has never made a speech in his life, and the memories in his mind

Remember, now it seems to be flapping its wings and flying away.

what should he do ？ Everyone at the party was applauding and everyone looked at him. He shook his head and refused. But he ...

Instead, it attracted more warm applause and invited him to give a speech on stage. "Dr. Curtis! Go! Please speak! "

The voice is getting louder and louder, and it is more firm.

His situation is very tragic. He knew that if he stood up and gave a speech, he would fail and he would not be able to speak.

Complete five or six sentences. So, he stood up and said nothing, with his back to his friend, silently.

I walked out quietly, feeling deeply embarrassed and even more ashamed.

The first thing he did when he returned to Brooklyn was to sign up for Carnegie's speech training class. He doesn't want to fall into it again.

The dilemma of blushing and speechless.

Students like him are the happiest experience for teachers, because he has extremely urgent needs. He hopes to have a performance.

The ability to speak, he has no second thoughts about this desire. Be able to prepare your speech thoroughly and practice it willingly.

There is no shortage of lessons in the training course.

Through hard practice, the speed of progress surprised him and exceeded his greatest hope. Priority/at the top

After the first few classes, his tension disappeared and his self-confidence became stronger and stronger. Two months later, he has become a member of the class.

Star speaker, soon began to accept the invitation to speak everywhere. He likes the feeling and joy of talking now.

Hello, it's my pleasure, and I'd like to make more friends from the speech. New york and the Political Party Campaign Committee.

After listening to Dr. Curtis's speech, a member of the Committee immediately invited him to publish articles for * * * and the party all over the city.

Campaign speech. If a politician knew that the speaker he wanted to enjoy a year ago was ashamed and sleepy.

Let one party be in a confused situation, and because he is tongue-tied, speechless and afraid to face the audience, then,

The politician will be surprised.

If you want to gain confidence, courage and ability, you can talk to people calmly and clearly.

Thinking is not as difficult as most people think. Just like playing golf. Anyone can play golf.

In order to develop his potential ability, as long as he has enough desire to do so.

Here's another example. One day, Gu Liqi, the chairman of a company, came to Carnegie's office. He is right about cards.

Nike said: "Every time I want to talk in my life, I have never been scared. As chairman, I must preside over it.

All the directors of the meeting have known each other for many years. When everyone is sitting around the table, I can answer their questions without difficulty.

Yes, but once I stand up and speak, I will be so frightened that I can't say a word This has been the case for many years. I don't

I believe you can help. My problem is too serious. It has a long history. "

Carnegie said, "If you think I can't help you, then why did you come to me?"

"There is only one reason," he replied. "I have an accountant to handle my personal account. he is

A shy guy. Before you enter your small office, you must go through mine. He has been a pain in the ass for years.

I seldom say a word when I tiptoe through my office and look at the ground. But recently, he has changed. at present

When he entered the office, his chin popped up, his eyes sparkled and he said,' Good morning, Mr. Gu Liqi.'

Full of confidence and energy. I was surprised at this change and asked him,' Why aren't you shy now?' he

So he told me to take your training course. I just saw the great changes in that frightened little guy.

Change, I'll come to you. "

Carnegie told Mr. Gu Liqiu to come to class regularly and do it according to the requirements of the course. In a few weeks, he will like it.

Speak in front of an audience.

"If you can really do it," Gu said, "then I will be one of the happiest people in this country."

Teacher Gu Liqu really came to attend the class and made rapid progress. Three months later, Carnegie invited him to join Astor.

Three thousand people in the hotel ballroom got together to talk about their gains in training. He is sorry that he can't attend because

Because he has an appointment in advance. But the next day he hung up on Carnegie and said, "I canceled my appointment."

I'm going to the party and give you a speech, which I owe you. I want to tell the audience that this training is for

My help. I do this in the hope of inspiring some listeners with my own stories and getting them out of life.

The fear of. "

Carnegie said to let him speak for two minutes, but he spoke for more than ten minutes in front of three thousand people.

There are many similar miracles in Mr Carnegie's lecture eloquence training class. Many people have changed because of this training.

Changed his own destiny. Among them, many people's promotion in their posts far exceeded their expectations.

Achieve a prominent position in business, career and society. Because of this, Mr. Carnegie thinks

At any moment, a speech is enough to make it successful. Because in such a speech, trainees can use the help of others.

Experience, overcome bad psychology, gain self-confidence, courage and speech skills.

First of all, eloquence is practiced. Don't be shy. You should know that everyone has similar qualifications. If you have stage fright, others will feel the same way. You should seize every opportunity to exercise to show yourself and give yourself confidence. I believe you can do it and say it. Every exercise will give you great courage to start the next one, plus you keep summing up and accumulating. In the long run, you can stand out in all future occasions, speak freely and prove yourself.

Secondly, if you have something to say, you can attract others to listen in social situations and some workplaces. You always let others have some benefits or produce * * * sounds in the process of listening to you, then this kind of speech is successful, and others will be willing to listen to you and communicate with you. Similarly, a good speaker must be a person who is particularly good at communication. He should also learn to listen to others. As the saying goes, go out to see the sky, go in to see the face. Therefore, when you speak, you should learn to look at the expression of others when they listen to you, so as to change the content and tone of your speech in time. Don't talk to yourself. This is the most failed speech.

Third, it is very important to pay attention to your sense of rhythm when you speak. Some people talk very fast, just like popping beans. Often after she finished, others didn't reflect on what she said. Speak slowly and loudly, and you will find that people will pay more attention to what you say, feel that everything you say is from the heart and has been carefully thought out by you, and people will think that you are responsible for what you say. In fact, writing is not necessarily easier than writing an article. If the article is not well written, it can be revised, but once it is said, it will be more difficult to revise it. We often feel that even if it is the same meaning or even the same sentence, people who can talk can make you happy, and people who can't talk can make you dizzy.

Finally, we should learn more from those who can talk and listen to others. There is a western proverb that God gave people a mouth and two ears to listen more and talk less. Listening is the most rewarding thing. Constantly enrich your internal knowledge, constantly learn from the strengths of others, and face every social and work occasion with a confident and modest heart. Even if you don't do well enough, as long as you work hard and have sincerity, I believe that over time you will become a master of speaking and communication, bringing a lot of happiness to your career and life!

5. Be confident, practice more, and often say,

I wish you success! At the same time, a host once had a stone in his mouth in order to practice standard Mandarin, and the effect was good, but I never tried it. It's a school accent. You can try.

Have fun! ! !