Ways for College Students to Cultivate Personal Etiquette
(A) improve their self-cultivation and strive to be a "four haves" new person.
The purpose of learning etiquette is to learn how to be a man and cultivate noble sentiments. A person's words and deeds affect his quality. Contemporary college students are the pillars of the four modernizations. To build China into a strong, prosperous, democratic and civilized socialist country, we must consciously strengthen ideological and moral construction. The party and the state call on every college student to strive to be a new person with ideals, morality, education and discipline. We must love our motherland, people, labor, science and socialism, abide by social ethics, and inspire ourselves with * * * ideology and morality. Only in this way can we catch up with the times and meet the needs of the development of the situation. To strive to become a "four haves" newcomer, learning the necessary etiquette knowledge is also one aspect. We often pay attention to a passing teacher or classmate, because their elegant temperament or natural and unrestrained manner deeply attracts us. So how to make a good impression when interacting with others? At least learn more social etiquette, which can avoid your timidity and shyness in the communication field, point out the maze in the communication field and give you extra points.
For contemporary college students, there are still many things we need to do to improve etiquette. Only when college students pay more attention to etiquette in their daily life can they become a habit and an elegant temperament in their bones. Many people feel that they have done a good job in this respect, but in fact, many times they have not paid good attention to the cultivation of their manners, so there are still many places and many details are not done well enough. Only when everyone attaches importance to etiquette cultivation, understands the importance of etiquette, and truly integrates etiquette into our lives, will our society be more harmonious, our country be more attractive, and it will be a real "state of etiquette".
(1) Seriously study theory and constantly improve the consciousness of ideological and moral cultivation.
Theory is the guide of action, and thought is the forerunner of action. The more thorough the theory, the more correct the understanding, the higher the consciousness of self-cultivation, and the less blindness in self-cultivation practice, so that we can find wrong tendencies in time, avoid detours and avoid setbacks. Ideological and moral cultivation refers to the process of tempering and improving a person's moral consciousness, beliefs and behavior habits to a certain level. From the perspective of their own development, young college students are in an important period of the formation and development of world outlook, outlook on life and values. During this period, college students have made some progress in ideology, morality and psychology, but on the whole, their social life experience is not rich enough, their thoughts are not mature enough, and there is still an obvious disconnect between knowledge and practice. Learning the course of ideological and moral cultivation is of great significance for improving the quality of political theory and ideological understanding of college students, helping them distinguish right from wrong, absorbing spiritual nutrition, gaining spiritual enlightenment of truth, goodness and beauty, and constantly improving their ideological and moral cultivation.
(3) Actively participate in social practice and combine theory with practice.
A person's ideological and moral status is mainly tested through social practice. As the saying goes, "Listen to his words and watch his actions", and this "action" is social practice. Social practice is not only the source of wisdom, but also the source of morality. Well, when you have good inner cultivation and basic etiquette knowledge, you are just an armchair strategist at this point. If it is divorced from communication and etiquette, it is empty talk. The best way to apply what you know to your life is to practice. People's knowledge comes from practice, and whether it is correct or not can only be tested through practice, which is the only criterion for testing truth. Therefore, college students should practice etiquette, cultivate their beautiful hearts with etiquette, influence others with their own etiquette behaviors, shorten the distance between people with etiquette, and win others' respect for themselves. In addition, in practice, college students should really cultivate the corresponding etiquette emotion, etiquette will and etiquette belief, and develop good etiquette habits. The formation of good manners and habits depends not only on trivial matters, but also on the determination and perseverance to overcome bad habits. "I rescue three times a day" is a Confucian cultivation rule, which is also applicable to contemporary college students.
The Importance of Cultivating College Students' Personal Etiquette
Xunzi once said: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't bear it. You can't live without manners. It's not good to be rude. Rude is uneasy. " This famous saying directly highlights the importance of "ceremony". China is an ancient civilization with a long history, and is known as "the state of etiquette". With the progress of the times and the increasingly frequent and close interpersonal communication, etiquette is becoming more and more important as a lubricant of communication. Paying attention to etiquette plays an important role in promoting social progress and improving the level of civilization. 2 1 century talent competition is fierce. As an intellectual group in the knowledge age, college students are the main driving force and reserve force of social development and will become the main force to promote social development. The comprehensive quality of college students directly determines the realization of the * * * ideal of a nation and a country's great rejuvenation. Therefore, it is of great significance and necessity to improve the comprehensive quality of college students, and it is also an extremely arduous task.
The etiquette cultivation of college students plays an extremely important role in college students. First of all, it is the need for college students to adapt to the modern information society. The rapid development of communication technology and means in modern information society is changing people's traditional communication concepts and behaviors. In particular, people's communication scope has gradually expanded from interpersonal communication to public communication, from face-to-face short-distance communication to long-distance communication. From slow-paced low-frequency propagation to fast-paced high-frequency propagation. This change in interpersonal communication in modern information society puts forward higher requirements for the content and mode of human social communication. Secondly, it is the need for college students to improve their ideological and political quality. If a student knows little about books and his knowledge level and moral level are seriously out of balance, it is impossible for him to become an excellent talent. At present, many colleges and universities have such a phenomenon:? Students receive high-level education, but their actual behavior can't even reach the basic moral level. A considerable part of them are related to the lack of necessary etiquette education. Systematic etiquette education for college students, so that they can master the basic code of conduct, can not only enrich their etiquette knowledge, master the etiquette norms that meet the requirements of socialist morality, and know how to express their behavior according to the etiquette norms in real life, but also organically unify their internal moral quality and external etiquette forms and become a veritable modern civilized person with high moral literacy.