I don't know if I often call myself lazy. I was captured by big data and recommended a story about a young man named Suo Yang who died of hunger and cold because he was too lazy. It's embarrassing.
This reminds me of the folk stories I read when I was a child. In ancient times, there was a couple whose wife was lazy and never did housework. If she could lie down, she wouldn't sit around all day.
One day, my husband was going out of town and worried that his wife would starve to death. He made a big cake around her neck so that she could eat it directly. That's sweet.
A few days later, the husband who came home found his wife starved to death. It turns out that my wife only eats the nearest cake in front of her and doesn't eat the surrounding ones. She is lazy and has no ability to turn the cake by hand.
This kind of lazy story is very instructive. There have been several versions, and their identities have changed. For example, the wife is not lazy, the husband is lazy, or the son is lazy, but there will be a big cake in the story and he will starve to death.
Many people think this is unreasonable because people have survival instinct.
For example, if you don't want to do anything on weekends, it's lazy enough to lie in bed from morning to afternoon or at night, but you will definitely be hungry and find something to eat.
It is difficult for people to take hunger seriously, just like in the famine years, when they were forced to eat nothing, eat everything and dare to eat anything. This strong desire for survival is in line with human evolution.
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I once read the story of the same young man who died of laziness in the newspaper.
A college student died in a rented house after graduation. The reason is surprising. He didn't eat, and he starved to death.
His sister is puzzled that her brother will starve to death.
My brother is the only college student in my family. He studies hard and his family has high expectations of him. He also said that he would work hard to repay his family.
However, he encountered some difficulties in his work and didn't want to go out for activities. His family gave him money to cheer him up. He didn't exist without money to buy food, but he starved to death with hands and feet.
In the contemporary era when all kinds of criminal cases emerge one after another, this news seems insignificant. Maybe other people who see it just sigh that there are such lazy people in the world.
Starving yourself is a special way to commit suicide.
I believe he must be ill. Although his family cared about him, they didn't notice his psychological problems. They just hope that he will work hard to be a college student and repay their upbringing.
But he didn't even pursue food.
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As I said before, the summary of other people's deaths in the past was unified.
It is selfish and irresponsible for a person to commit suicide. A person who doesn't work is lazy to death. No one will realize whether there is something wrong with his psychological condition.
Many people think that all kinds of things can be solved by universal principles.
This man is too lazy. Just be hungry. Starving, it doesn't matter, it's no use living. Then, again and again, I regard the death of laziness as an anecdote and a mysterious story.
After all, times have improved. With the popularization of psychology today, we will find that there are deeper reasons for people to go to a dead end.
Some diseases, such as cancer, can affect death, but they are ignored. For example, depression has become the main cause of suicide for many cheerful people.
This disease was discovered in the last century and has not been fully explored until today. It is often ignored silently, but it does affect the attitude of countless people towards life. It is a brain lesion, and people sometimes can't stop it from attacking.
A young man named Suo Yang died of laziness at the age of 23. Most people accuse his parents of improper upbringing, doting on him in every way and following him in everything, even if he doesn't want to study.
His parents died as an adult, and his life was in trouble because he could not take care of himself.
But he is lucky that someone has been helping him and arranging work for him. It's really impossible to give him food, but he doesn't learn to cook. Send him ready-made food, he ate some, and the others directly rotted.
Such an act that goes against human common sense is deeply shocking.
The overindulgence of parents really ruined the young man. But a young man who starved to death with food is by no means too lazy on the surface.
The most obvious feature of lazy people is laziness, and the other is laziness, dirty and smelly, which makes people unbearable, but no one should think that they will starve to death.
Being lazy enough to commit suicide is obviously a neglected heart disease that affects death.
Therefore, I think that the death of lazy people should not be a warning that people can't be lazy or they will die, but a warning that people should pay attention to their mental health.