Nowadays, it seems normal for college students to "live together" and "have sex". With the opening of society, teenagers' sexual concept has also changed. according to
Zhejiang University of Technology's survey of college students' love views in 10 colleges and universities in the province shows that contemporary college students
Great changes have taken place in sexual morality, and nearly13 of college students are interested in "sexual liberation" and "sexual freedom" in the west.
It is an attitude of recognition. There are 3 1. 1% students who not only think that "sexual liberation" and "sexual freedom" are "modern".
The symbol of civilization is completely acceptable ",and that" this is the inevitable result of the development of human love "; there are two
1.9% students think premarital sex is "understandable", and 55.9% students think premarital sex.
As for "as long as you love each other, there is no need to blame", even 5% students think that "as long as two people are willing, there is no love."
All right. "In addition, according to the data of the Sexual Health Education Center of Capital Normal University, the university has more than 1 10,000 students registered from nearly 30 universities in China.
The survey of students' sexual attitude shows that 15.7% of male college students and 5.5% of female college students have sexual behavior.
%, 57% of male college students and 26.7% of female college students caused premarital sex. But the openness of mind does not mean that behavior should be followed.
Love is one of the most beautiful emotions of human beings. Hugging, kissing and caressing in the process of love, including the impulse generated by passionate love, are natural and normal, not unclean or evil, so there is no need to feel distressed or ashamed. From the development of sexual desire and behavior, men are usually relatively active, while women's sexual energy is generally potential. On many occasions, it will germinate only under the action of the opposite sex and the stimulation of the body, so it has the characteristics of environmental dependence. However, it is a dangerous game to know that you are too greedy for your lover's caress, and after marginal temptation, you will eventually have an involuntary impulse. We should be psychologically prepared for the power of the emotional tide in love, set up a "dam" and imagine a "retreat" when our reason can still speak. Once you pay it all, the consequences will be unimaginable. Whether the other person is a lover, whether he intends to get married, and whether he is ready to be a parent after the accident.
Moreover, the characteristics of college students' sexual behavior are as follows: first, it is sudden, which often happens suddenly and is unprepared; The second is voluntary but irrational. College students are young, less threatened by others, and most of their sexual behaviors are voluntary and irrational. Third, repetition. Due to the influence of age and concept, once we break through this line of defense, we will no longer worry too much and it will happen again and again. This feature shows that college students' concept is not mature enough now, and they only care about temporary desires without long-term plans. Sexual behavior is the most intimate personal behavior of young men and women, but it is also restricted by social and cultural environment. Although people have treated sex with a natural, scientific and serious attitude, on the whole, people are far from "indifferent" to premarital sex. The possible negative effects of "stealing forbidden fruit" or being forced to lose one's virginity still exist objectively to some extent. Premarital sex may lead to premarital pregnancy, psychological stress and mental burden, and may become an inducement to harm physical and mental health. We should be especially vigilant against the spread of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS in society. Therefore, college students should not have sex.