I believe that people who are looking for a job after graduation will have a feeling. At first, they were particularly looking forward to and excited, but after finding it, it will inevitably make people feel quite headache, because the work is not as beautiful as we thought, and sometimes it will be misunderstood by parents. So what if our parents don't understand us today?

Point 1 explain patiently.

There is a generation gap between us and our parents, and there will be some misunderstandings. When we say that we are architecture majors, maybe he will say, Oh, you just built a house. Therefore, you must know how to explain this matter in detail and let the other party know what it is like. I remember what I told me before. I'm a computer major, and he said, just play computer. Sitting in the office, you can do things well with the mouse.

Therefore, for parents who don't understand, we really need to know how to explain clearly to each other, how we operate specifically, what role we play, what kind of support we can get for this enterprise, explain clearly to him, maybe he will understand, maybe he will recognize our work.

Second, don't complain to your parents.

In fact, parents are also good for us. If he really doesn't understand us, we must never complain, because complaining can't solve the problem. We should be rational, know how to communicate with them, and at the same time understand how to tolerate their wrong views. Of course, you still have to do things yourself.

Third, do your own thing.

Many times, what we want is not understanding, nor supporting and encouraging what we need, but doing our own thing well. When he doesn't understand, you should do your own thing to avoid making mistakes. After a long time, maybe he will have a clearer understanding of your work.