Generally don't forget. The study found that cohabitants before marriage are more likely to divorce. The decision of cohabiting men and women to get married may only be out of "inertia" rather than strong attraction to each other. After cohabitation, it is easy for them to enter marriage, but it is also easy to get out of marriage. According to a study in 2009, men and women are more likely to be unhappy when they live together. Of course, this is not to say that every couple who live together has no good result, but that men and women who "promise first and then live together" are more likely to get happiness. At the beginning, people may be attracted to people who are completely different from themselves, but a lot of research on intimate relationships has found that similarity is the "glue" to maintain relationships. In the long run, people with similar outlook on life are more likely to feel deep love and help them withstand various challenges in their life journey. Like-minded people, after the passion burns out, what remains is the comfortable feeling of snuggling up to each other. The reason why boys live together and don't get married is 1, and the cost of marriage is high. Now I buy a flat house in a fourth-tier city, ranging from two million to seven or eight hundred thousand. Even the down payment is unaffordable for many young people, and the betrothal gift, decoration, furniture and wedding are not small expenses. Nowadays, many men don't want to get married, but they can't afford it. But the cost of cohabitation is much lower. 2, you are not suitable for marriage. Men just want to find a woman who is open to love and marry a kind and virtuous woman. This is not much different from a woman looking for a romantic man to fall in love with and an honest man to marry. All the noise in the world is for profit. Nowadays, people get married with a lot of utility. It's not as simple as two people simply falling in love. Cohabitation need not be so complicated, as long as it is suitable. 3. Men who are afraid of losing their freedom long for freedom. Marriage is equivalent to an extra layer of legal relationship. It is not a word that they want to break up when they are not married. When they are married, they are no longer so free. Marital divorce not only needs to divide half of the marital property, but also bears more intangible losses. Living together doesn't need to be considered. 4. There are many reasons why fear of marriage people are fear of marriage. Maybe when I was a child, my family was unhappy, my mind was traumatized, or I got married and was cheated by my wife. I no longer believe in marriage and have a fear of marriage. Will boys forget the girls they once lived with? Under what circumstances will a man forget the woman he slept with? Love is possessive, but the other person doesn't necessarily need it. Sun An and Su Yun divorced a few months ago. They used to be college classmates. After graduating from college, they lived together. After working together without money, they went to the palace of marriage. As Sun An said, "I was with Su Yun, and everything happened as if it were going to happen." However, married life is that two people who were originally in love no longer love each other. Su Yun began to get involved in most of Sun An's life. She likes to look through Sun An's mobile phone every night to see if he has been with any woman. Sometimes, even when she saw Sun An chatting with her female colleagues on her mobile phone, Su Yun would fly into a rage and accuse Sun An of liking each other. Sun An will seriously explain to Su Yun at first, and then keep a little distance from her female colleagues. But Su Yun's sufferings did not end there. Sometimes she can call several times in succession when Sun An is working overtime to confirm whether he is really working overtime. Sun An felt that such a married life was not what he wanted. He is like a caged bird, sometimes even if he flies out, he still has an anklet on his foot. In this case, Sun An finally filed a divorce with Su Yun. I love you, but you are free. Sun An said, "I really loved Su Yun at first. Every night when I slept with her, I felt that the night was too short. But after marriage, Su Yun seems to be a different person, finding fault with me everywhere, which makes me feel full of depression and consumes my love for her a little. " When two people are together, they are actually an individual, and they should have their own space, which is more conducive to the development of their relationship, instead of blindly thinking that loving someone means having him. It's just right, I believe in love, but right, he obviously doesn't need such love. Love what? Just like Givenchy to Hepburn, Givenchy never got Hepburn, but he stayed with Hepburn all the time. He has never been married in his life, explaining "I love you, but you are free". When a man faces a woman he likes, all the love words he says at the beginning are sincere. He really thought he wouldn't betray each other, but when women began to lose themselves in love, what men said at the beginning didn't count. So, under what circumstances do men forget the women they have slept with before? In fact, he began to feel disappointed with each other and gradually disliked each other. Will boys forget the girls who have lived together? Usually it is the boys who propose cohabitation, and it is also the boys who mind. First, I can live with my girlfriend, but I can't accept that my girlfriend once lived together as a boy. Of course, I won't mind my girlfriend living with me, because I can know the girl's character after living together. If it suits me, I will continue to get along and finally get married. If it doesn't fit, I will definitely break up. This is very realistic. I can't marry her just because I live together, and then I won't be happy. But I can't accept that my girlfriend has moved in with someone else. If I knew, even if we were together, I would break up, which touched my bottom line, because men know men best and what cohabitation means, and young people understand it. I think women who live together are like married women. If you break up after living together, it is equivalent to divorce. I can't accept such a woman I know many netizens may scold me for writing here, but it is fair for girls and boys to live together. Basically, boys pay money and material, one pays money and the other pays youth. Second, I said I don't mind, but I still care that my girlfriend has moved in together, but we are together. I said I didn't mind, but I felt very uncomfortable. Imagine that my girlfriend once lived with another man and even called her husband and wife every morning. They eat together, watch movies and sleep together at night. Just like a newlywed, which man really doesn't mind? Very few. I don't think a woman can forget the first man who lived together. A woman who has lived together will not love her present position wholeheartedly, and even occasionally think of her predecessor. I feel that I have found a divorced woman now. This feeling is like being cuckolded. I am an honest man. This feeling is too uncomfortable. Third, it varies from person to person. I can understand that girls want to live with boys. They must be in love, so I have no prejudice against them. It's just that girls still have to meet the Chu people before deciding whether to send themselves out. I also dislike some girls, thinking that they can spend boys' money and are lazy. This is not because of love at all, but because they are looking for a "long-term meal ticket". I hate such girls. But if my girlfriend has lived together, I will understand and accept it, because I have been in love myself and lived with my ex-girlfriend. Although we were not together for various reasons, I know what it was like to fall in love at that time. Who hasn't asked yet? As long as my girlfriend only loves me now and doesn't love my ex, we can live a good life now! Also, I think some boys should stay away from their girlfriends and not hurt them if they care about their cohabitation history. It's better to make it clear to her that it's better to break up as soon as possible, and not both of them are partners. They want to enjoy the benefits of cohabitation and don't want to be responsible. Girls need to be careful when they live together. Xue Ying doesn't object to couples living together before marriage, but girls must think carefully before living together, because some boys just want to get your body. Therefore, girls must be careful not to be toys in the window, because they take you home fresh and throw you into the trash can when they are bored. In addition, when boys decide to live with girls, they must also think clearly. Can you give her a future? What are your plans for the future? Have you thought about it all? If you really love her, you should be responsible for her. Don't live with her if you can't dress her in a wedding dress. If you break up after living together, the blow to girls will be fatal, and both men and women should consider it clearly.