Abstract: With the development of the times, there are many new features in the love view of contemporary college students, and it is very common for college students to fall in love during their school days.

It is necessary to deeply understand and investigate the love view of contemporary college students, so that ideological and political education can be targeted and achieve good results.

Keywords: love; College students' love view; Love concept education

The love view of contemporary college students is manifested in the following aspects.

Features:

I attach importance to both learning and love, and treat learning dialectically.

Relationship with love

When contemporary college students answer the investigation about the relationship between love and study,

54. 1% students agree that learning is more important than love, but they think that learning and love are important.

College students who are equally important in love also account for 42.8%, which is bigger than those born in 1980s.

There are obvious differences among students. According to some data, college students in the 1980s

In the investigation of the relationship between learning and love, learning is far more important than love.

Higher than contemporary college students (up to 72.3% of college students in the 1980s), and at the same time realize that,

Because they are equally important, they are far less important than contemporary college students (80 years old).

Students only account for 23.6%), and contemporary college students still attach great importance to learning.

Industry, but love has always been regarded as a major event in life.

Some attach importance to it.

Contemporary college students are dealing with the relationship between love and study.

In fact, love and study can be dialectically placed in different periods of life.

For example, quite a few students talked about the reasons why they chose to study.

More important reasons than love are: (1) pressure from fierce social competition, (2)

The pressure comes from the grade of one's own school, and (3) from the loving guests.

Understanding of material conditions, (4) from the responsibility to the future family, (5) to

Love is hard to grasp, and I am afraid of falling into it. (6) recognition

Because love is too sacred, unfathomable and so on. Choose love and study.

Equally important students advocate that love is an important group in life.

As a part, it can inspire people, give them strength and bring them spirit.

In terms of motivation, emotional pleasure, and life enrichment. , and more

Many places are chosen by grasping it in the sense of the whole life course.

Love is as important as school. It should be said that contemporary college students are relatively

College students in the 1980s have a deeper and more rational understanding of love.

More dialectical. The Choice of Post-80s College Students and Contemporary College Students

There is a big difference, which just shows the problem of love and the cost of society.

Value orientation is closely related to reform and opening up and people's ideas.

Update, the question about love is deeper and more humane.

Second, girls are self-reliant, and gender equality has become an adjustment for college students.

Important silicon code about emotional balance

This is manifested in two aspects. First, both boys and girls are studying.

Attitudes that are more important than love are similar, accounting for 54.4% of boys and 54.4% of girls.

Accounting for 53.9%. There are also boys and girls who think school is as important as love.

Attitude also has a high degree of recognition. Secondly, at the level of mate selection,

Whether the conditions for choosing men and women are higher than their own, contemporary college students

In sharp contrast with the attitude of college students in the 1980s and 1980s.

The attitude of contemporary college students reflects the profound influence of China's traditional ideas.

Compared with contemporary college students, it shows distinct characteristics of the times.

For example, in the 1980s, college students chose girls over their studies.

Most of them, while contemporary college students are mostly boys; When you select "Spouse Ratio"

Is the other side strong, equally important or weaker than the other side? ",male university in the 1980s.

74.6% students choose a square, and 23. 1% girls choose two sides.

Equality. However, only 28.3% of contemporary college students are men.

The other side is strong, while 6 1.5% of boys agree that the two sides are equal. And contemporary

The proportion of female college students who agree that both sides are equal is higher, reaching.

72.4%, while only 17% of female college students in the so era. It says here.

Obviously, the spirit of autonomy, self-reliance and self-improvement of contemporary female college students has been significantly improved.

High, and this spirit has been recognized by boys, this is a coeducational university.

The pursuit of primitive love undoubtedly built a very good cognitive bridge.

Both parties in love are completely equal in personality and have a complete position in love.

Equality has been recognized by more and more college students, and it is a society with equality between men and women.

Socialist morality has penetrated into deep love life, such as attachment, submission and coercion.

With the improvement of college students' education level, the old ideology has changed from

Basically quit, women no longer regard marriage and husband as their own lives.

The only hope is that the concept of equality permeates life and tradition.

The concept of "marry a Han Chinese, marry a Han Chinese, dress and eat" and the concept that men are superior to women are gradually fading.

Because of the love concept of high-knowledge groups, men and women can only be equal.

Only by understanding and respecting can we take a serious and responsible attitude towards love.

Third, profound rational cognition and simple practical actions are worrying.

The improvement of college students' understanding of love and the current university campus

The simple, hasty and even uncivilized love phenomenon of college students in college.

In sharp contrast. The establishment of love requires not only asking some questions.

Understanding the topic requires a relatively mature psychology and a relatively stable person.

Outlook on life, rich social experience and solid knowledge base.

It is a relatively solid economic foundation. Love is a kind of stability.

Advanced emotions need relatively mature psychology as a guarantee, and the sex of college students

The case has not been finalized, their psychological development is not very mature, and their emotions are still

Greater instability. The maturity and stability of outlook on life also affect.

With people's understanding and understanding of life, happiness and love, college students

The outlook on life tends to be stable, but it has not been fully finalized, plus social experience.

For superficiality, the objective rationality is poor when considering problems, and the emotional component is poor.

It is more difficult to make scientific judgments and choices, so it is easy for college students to appear.

Misunderstandings of "conformity", "comparison", "eliminating loneliness" and "satisfying vanity"

A wrong view of love will inevitably bring a series of hidden dangers. When these

When a hidden danger breaks out, it will cause greater fluctuations in their emotions and make him

It is more difficult for students to evaluate themselves and each other comprehensively and objectively, and it is difficult to cope with emergencies.

A sudden setback.

Fourth, the standard of mate selection is perfect, with rich levels and rich cultural connotations.

variety

Choice is the expression of one's feelings, which embodies one's deep feelings.

The quality, cultivation and sentiment of the class. Because of the times, lifestyle and views

College students also reflect on the personality quality of choosing a spouse because of their different thoughts.

The special standards and conditions of the characteristics of the times, facing the theme of love, table

It shows the intersection of tradition and modernity, eastern civilization and western civilization.

Fusion. But it is worth mentioning that more college students' mate selection criteria come from

In the past, we only paid attention to the connotation of traditional culture such as kindness, filial piety and virtue.

Pay attention to the qualities of modern people such as talent, creativity and wisdom. But some are the same.

Learn more than 20 conditions in one go in the conditions and standards of mate selection.

It's hard to find such a person in real life. An overly perfect blow.

Substandard, pushing college students to a very confused situation, they fight.

Life measures each other by romantic and perfect standards, while oneself is.

Sweet dreams.

The concept of love is the embodiment of outlook on life and values, and it is a problem that people care about.

Basic views and attitudes towards love. Because everyone's people

Different outlook on life, different value choices, and different basic views and attitudes towards love.

Different degrees. Generally speaking, different levels of love view, to love.

Practice also embodies different levels of guidance. For the love of college students

The author thinks that we should pay attention to college students from the educational level.

We should advocate emotional education and moral education from the behavioral level.

Make extensive contacts, attach importance to friendship, and treat love with caution.

First of all, we should strengthen the scientific grasp of the nature of love. The author passed.

The questionnaire survey and classroom speech of college students show that college students love.

Most of the understanding of love only stays at the emotional level, and it is more.

Many of them come from novels, TV plays and even pop songs.

Since the popularization, the media has emphasized love on emotional propaganda.

It is difficult to help them form a correct view of love, so the essence of love

Understanding is more important. Marxist view of love

Because sex-based feelings between men and women have become

Love is determined by people's social attributes, so there is sincerity between men and women.

Love is not only a natural physiological need and an impulse to need each other, but also

It is like-minded and spiritual connection, and all this is based on a certain foundation.

Against the background of social and historical conditions and subject to specific social relations,

Economic status and cultural background, etc. So love is essentially

A man and a woman are based on certain objective material basis and the same life theory.

Want to form the most sincere admiration and desire for each other in their hearts.

The other person is the strongest, most stable and single-minded person who becomes his lifelong partner.

Feelings. The essence of love is human's social and natural attributes.

The lofty feelings of the opposite sex.

Guide students to treat interpersonal relationships and heterosexual friends correctly in practice.

Friendship advocates "wide communication, friendship and cautious love". Marx pointed out that communication

The future is the inevitable companion of mankind, from the general law of love development analysis

First, if friendship is regarded as the basis of love, it is necessary to advocate "extensive communication and attention"

Friendship and cautious love are more acceptable to college students. Because contemporary college students

I attach great importance to interpersonal communication and have extensive communication opportunities.

And at the same time, both male and female students are interested in the true friendship between the opposite sex.

With a high recognition rate, students of the opposite sex have established friendship through communication.

It is an important part of college students' interpersonal relationship. college life

Friendship between men and women of the opposite sex is conducive to the emotional stability of both men and women.

Compensation is beneficial to the formation of college students' good personality. So from

The process of communication, friendship and love is related.

Therefore, guiding college students to practice correctly will achieve good results.