The man's name is Jane and the woman's name is Xiao Ai. They are all my high school classmates. Now our high school classmates call them "condor heroes". They met in high school and then went to the same university in Shanghai, where they really fell in love. In this way, they got married after dating 10 years, and now they have been married for 8 years, and their relationship is still inseparable. It is an example for our generation to learn. Let's look at them and see where the secret of their success lies.
First, two people's personalities should complement each other, and it is easier to get true love.
Xiao is really the only child in the family, but he has a lot of personality. In high school, he gave us the impression that people were cool, simple and direct, and did things directly, without much consideration for each other's feelings. Xiao Ai may have a gentle personality, because she has an elder sister above and a younger brother below, and she never had any conflicts with anyone during her school days. So, they got together later. Although they are about the same age, we all say that they love each other. Men can make trouble, while women can make peace.
Second, similar family background.
Xiaozhen and Xiao Ai both come from Kochi families because they have many common interests. For example, two people like music very much, one plays the piano and the other plays the violin. Every time I do it, I always feel like my husband is singing with her. At the same time, because they are in the same city, both sides know each other's families very well, and their love has not been opposed by either family from the beginning to marriage.
Third, the woman should be independent and leave room for the man.
Whether the romance in college can finally have a result depends on the woman. It is very important that the woman really found someone who is willing to insist and pay. It is said that in the eighth year of Xiao Zhen's love with Xiao Ai, Xiao Zhen's father had an accident and the school's economic situation plummeted. That little girl is really depressed and upset. He felt that the balance between them had been broken, and he once wanted to break up with Xiao Ai. At this time, Xiao Ai firmly said that their love has been so long, and she is optimistic about Xiaozhen and will not change because of external changes. Because of this incident, the relationship between the two was restored.
Fourth, both sides should know how to choose and not be too strong.
I think when they just graduated, because both of them are foreigners, Xiao Ai's family has found a good job in the institution in their hometown, but Xiaozhen doesn't want to go back. He believes that there are more opportunities in Shanghai and there will be better development in the future. After listening to Xiaozhen's words, Xiao Ai felt that her boyfriend was really considerate and motivated, and decided to give up his job at home and travel to Shanghai with Xiaozhen. Although they had a hard time, they finally got through it.
5. Going to college is also very important.
A survey in the ranking of China University's love success rate shows that the love success rate of universities in big cities is higher than that of small and medium-sized cities. This is also easy to understand. Because college students have many opportunities in big cities after graduation, it is easier to stay and get along with each other later. In universities in second-and third-tier cities, two people may break up after graduation because it is difficult to reach an agreement on their continuing careers there.
In fact, there is no essential difference between campus love and secular love, but the baptism and balance of material and spirit. It's just that campus love is covered with the beautiful coat of ivory tower. The dedication of sincere feelings and the necessary material foundation are the guarantee for two people to come together.