So, should parents send themselves to college? Presumably more than 90% prospective college students don't understand the following three reasons. Bian Xiao thinks these three reasons are very reasonable.
1. Your university is also your parents' university.
The reason why I can successfully enter the university is because my parents are behind me! Except for your exam results, the rest are all because of your parents, who have worked hard to raise you, from kindergarten to primary school, from junior high school to junior high school, and now to the university. Your parents have been with you all the way. This company has been working for more than ten years. If you think this is just your own university, and your parents and family are working so hard for you, it is all wet. To put it bluntly, your university.
2, 18 years old is not your bar mitzvah, only going to college.
Many prospective college students will think that they have passed the age of 18 and have reached adulthood. At this age, they can fight for it by themselves, but in the eyes of their parents, the age of 18 is not a bar mitzvah at all, and only when they go to college is it a real bar mitzvah. /kloc-Before the age of 0/8, you never left home and were sheltered by your parents. To your parents, you are a child. When you go to college, it means that you have left your sheltered home, and the feelings between you and your parents are quietly changing. Therefore, going to college is your rite of passage. Many parents insist on sending you to college because they want to witness the real adult ceremony in your life and know how to take care of yourself before you really grow up!
Your parents want you to land safely before you fly off the line.
Many prospective college students think that after living with their parents for more than ten years, they have been flying kites for 18 years, hoping that they can cut that thread as soon as possible. Now that you are finally in college, it's time for your parents to let you fly freely. However, before the last kite is disconnected, parents want their children to be with them when they go to college, and then they will be relieved to see you land safely.
In fact, many prospective college students don't understand their parents' hearts now. They blindly refused their parents to send them to college for different reasons, and many parents also expressed their helplessness. However, letting your parents accompany you to college is actually a kind of filial piety, so I suggest that prospective college students should never easily refuse their parents to send them to college, which will only make their parents sad. If it were you, would you have the heart to refuse their parents to send them to college?