Sometimes, the parent-child problems between parents and children are not all caused by children. Both parents love their children, but they haven't adapted yet, and the children have grown up. If you want a harmonious parent-child relationship, parents should also change their habits.
Only by letting go can children grow up.
If the kite string is always in the hands of parents, then the kite will never fly high. If you really want your child to grow up, parents should learn to let go moderately and let go of that thread.
Only by giving children a rest can they realize their true skills. After all, parents can't stay with their children all the time, so they should exercise their independent living ability.
Every student has to experience all kinds of setbacks.
In fact, many children are not persuaded. Sometimes, even if parents know that the road ahead is impassable, as long as it is not too dangerous, parents can let their children hit the south wall by themselves, thus believing their children's experiences.
The flowers in the greenhouse have not experienced wind and rain, and they will be smashed if they are not careful. Therefore, it is necessary for children to try to experience all kinds of setbacks alone, so as to develop a tenacious and unyielding character.
With the development of society, parents' values are not necessarily correct.
With the development of society, many old experiences may no longer be correct. If someone told you 50 years ago that in the future, people can see each other without facing each other and the scenery of the world without going out, then this person would be considered a liar at that time, but these things have all come true 50 years later.
So sometimes parents should clearly realize that their ideas may not be correct, let alone impose their ideas on their children.