1, I'm going my own way. Success and failure, happiness and pain are all relegated to a secondary position. The most important thing is the road itself.
2. The person who glimpses the truth of the sea no longer tries to talk about the sea, because he understands what Kant said: words invented by human reason can only talk about phenomena, but not the essence of the world.
I heard an argument: which is more important, personality or intelligence? Each side holds one end, arguing and making peace. On the one hand, personality is very important, because intelligence can be cultivated, but personality is difficult to change. On the other hand, intelligence is very important, because personality can be cultivated, but intelligence is difficult to change.
The greatness in the sense of human nature is universal and will win the respect of people of all ethnic groups.
We usually care about the right or wrong of things, the amount of truth and the thickness of feelings. In the eyes of a god, this seriousness must be ridiculous.
Since fortune is so unpredictable and unpredictable, we should keep a distance from this external fate, so as not to be tempted to some extent, not to be carried away when we are lucky, and not to lose our fighting spirit when we are unlucky. In other words, on the macro level, we hold a passive, detached and natural attitude.
7. Will the same candle be rekindled on another dark night?
In my opinion, in modern market competition, comprehensive quality is more important, including spiritual quality. Huge sums of money in the market often come from people with open minds. Although a juggler can succeed for a while, he will never achieve great success.
9. We are holding a book. If we are restless, even the best book can't be read, let alone understand its beauty. The same is true of reading the book of life. In fact, only when people are quiet can their hearts and senses be truly open, thus becoming keen and in the best relationship with their objects. However, peace of mind cannot be forced, it is a realm and the result of world outlook. A person who doesn't know what he really wants must always be in a state of mind.
10, get along with people. If you feel particularly relaxed and feel real lessons in relaxation, I believe you must have met your kind, even if you are engaged in completely different occupations.
1 1. A person's love experience is not limited to the gratitude and resentment with one or several specific opposite sex, but the overall feeling of the whole opposite sex world.
12, the first kind of dream, its content is practical, such as the dream of promoting to a higher position and making a fortune, the dream of marrying a beautiful woman, the dream of winning a Nobel Prize, and so on. For these dreams, Freud's definition is applicable: dreams are substitutes for unfulfilled wishes Failure to achieve does not mean that it is impossible. There are indeed people in the world who get promoted to a higher position, marry beautiful women and win the Nobel Prize. The value of this dream depends on whether it comes true or not. If not, we say it is an unrealistic dream.
13. From this perspective, the source of meaning is pursuit and nostalgia, not possession. The value of possession seems to be that it gives a goal to pursue and an object to nostalgia. Possession seems to be just a screen on which colorful images are projected by pursuit and nostalgia.
14. A person's childhood, adolescence and youth used to be the most beautiful and important stage of life, which has its own irreplaceable value. Now this value has been completely obliterated, and all its values have been reduced to just preparing for finding a job in the future. How much precious childhood and youth have been sacrificed for such a small goal. This practice is undoubtedly barbaric. I can't help asking: Is this still education? What is education? However, the current education system is characterized by examination and quick success, which makes it difficult for parents and children to have other choices. Therefore, it is imperative to change this system.
15. No matter at home or abroad, most people with high cultural taste don't watch or watch TV less. I believe this is not accidental. For example, watching TV is like going to a party. People you don't know are always introduced to you. After the excitement, you can't remember who they are and what they said. Imagine, if you always attend such a party, is it a bit boring?
16. In the past, people read the books of great writers, but could not see their people. Occasionally, you may meet them in the street, but you won't recognize them because you don't know what they look like. Not only great writers, but also great politicians, scientists and scholars. An American scholar pointed out that the first fifteen presidents of the United States would not be recognized when walking in the street. Perhaps during the election campaign, voters in their constituency can see the presidential candidates, but people also pay attention to their thoughts and opinions, not their looks. It is said that the debate between Lincoln and Dogra lasted for seven hours, and the audience always listened with relish. No one came to see what they looked like, and then they left.
17, I believe that people not only have external eyes, but also have internal eyes. External eyes see phenomena, and internal eyes see meaning. What the external eyes see becomes the storage of the brain, and what the internal eyes see becomes the wealth of the soul.
18, people can't be true forever, and they can't be false forever. A little lie in many truths, or a little truth in many lies, is moving. The most boring thing is half to half.
19, a person unconsciously wants to appear sincere and impress others and himself with his sincerity. He was really moved by himself. A person deliberately wants to appear cunning, charm others and charm himself with his own cunning. He really doubts himself.
20. The key to determining whether an activity is created lies in the real participation of the soul. A painter painted a picture that was nothing new, and a pedant wrote a book that echoed people's thoughts. None of them created. On the contrary, if you are truly intoxicated with the beauty of a landscape, a poem or a piece of music, and if you form your own unique views on a certain issue, then you are creating.
2 1, when people lose the poor, they will create better ones. Progress is forced.
22. It can be seen that half of the things in the world are not worth fighting for, and the other half are not worth fighting for. So, what are you arguing about?
From the ultimate point of view, all disputes in the world are so small and insignificant. Of course, in reality, the settlement of disputes will not be so simple. However, without such an ultimate vision, mankind will lose its way, and any solution can only go further and further on the wrong road.
24. There are many interferences, all of which are foreign affairs. I can look at my experience from a certain distance. I am who I am, and meeting is meeting. The stormy waves beat the shore and rolled up the dry snowdrift. However, the shore is still shore, indifferent to the ever-changing ocean.
25. If a floating life is a dream, why not enjoy it as a dream? The world is like a cloud, why not treat it as a cloud and watch it change calmly?
26. This is an absurd universe. Water is far away, changing and never making sense. It is frustrated by its meaninglessness. Man is the product of his pain.
27. Therefore, the birth of man itself is a protest against meaninglessness.
28. I feel scared when I think that there have been countless people and countless different lives in the long river of human history. Suddenly I feel that my life and I have lost weight and become insignificant.
29. In order to get used to losing, sometimes it is better to take the initiative to lose. Both eastern and western religions have the saying of giving. According to my understanding, the original meaning of giving is to teach people to get rid of greed, not to cling to possession, and then not to cling to all external things, even this earthly life. Only in this way can we understand why Buddhism lists giving as the first of the "six degrees", that is, the first bridge from this confused shore to the other side of consciousness. Buddhism advocates "no self". Since "I" does not exist, there is no such thing as "mine". Nothing belongs to you, not even yourself, let alone property. Considering this, what else can people gain and lose?
They crowded on that road, competing with each other, pushing, blocking and trampling. What's ahead? I don't know, since everyone is rushing forward, it can't be wrong.
3 1, I don't mean to be mean, but I want to draw a very real conclusion from it: when you suffer great pain, you should love yourself, know how to bear it yourself, and try not to disturb others with your own pain.
Plants must take root in the soil to grow healthily. People are the same, but they are not as obvious as plants in appearance, so they are easily overlooked by us. Leaving the land is bound to pay a terrible price. If this insensitivity to nature continues, human beings will inevitably experience spiritual degradation. Of course, the new generation who grew up in front of the TV can't read Homer and Shakespeare. Is it strange that when people are always surrounded by man-made products, they no longer know how to appreciate the creation of gods and demigods?
We should learn a basic belief from all pious nations, that is, to fear nature. We should remember that man is the son of nature and can only conform to nature as a whole, but can't conquer and dominate nature. No matter how great a civilization human beings have created, nature is always greater than human beings. We should also remember that it is true that people can get close to nature and understand it, but there are limits. Nature has its inaccessible and exposed secrets. All pious people call this secret God, and we should respect it.
34. Looking at the sea, you must be alone. With others, you can't see the truth of the sea. People who paddle on the beach and close companions around them will become shelters, where your eyes and heart hide to escape the threat of the sea. You must have nowhere to run, and let inexplicable forces swallow you up. Time has disappeared, space has disappeared, human beings have disappeared, cities and civilizations have disappeared, and you have disappeared, or you have merged with the sea and merged into eternal desolation.
35. When a person comes into the world, it is first of all a life. Life is simple. However, people's lives are becoming more and more complicated. Many times, we live not for life, but for desire, ambition, identity and appellation, not for life, but for wealth, power, status and reputation. These social deposits cover life. We regard them as more important than life and spend our whole life on them, so we can't hear the voice of life itself without listening.
36. There is too much rational accumulation in things: words, concepts, opinions, evaluations and so on. There are too many social deposits in life: wealth, power, status, reputation and so on. Over time, precipitation replaced ontology, forming an unbreakable false world.
Let's all be quiet. Everyone should listen to their inner body and mind, listen to what their life is saying, and think about what their life really needs.
38. Wisdom and cleverness are two different things. Cleverness refers to a person's ability, such as good memory, strong understanding, rich imagination, quick response and so on. With these qualities, combined with subjective efforts and objective opportunities, you can succeed in society and become a capable politician, knowledgeable scholar, shrewd businessman and so on. However, no matter how clever a person is, if he does not have enough wisdom, he will not achieve much after all. Perhaps it is for this reason that there have been more wise men than great men since ancient times.
39. A young mind should not be as still as water. The world belongs to young people, and traveling to the vast world while young is an essential experience in life.
40. Being painful and happy is the self-enjoyment of vitality. The saddest thing is that there is no energy, no happiness and no pain.
4 1, the quality of all communication depends on the quality of the participants themselves. Only between two people with rich souls can there be truly touching love and friendship.
42. God gave everyone life and soul. Live a good life and settle your heart, and life will be complete. Happiness lies in the simplicity of life and the richness of spirit.
43. I really feel that good children are not spoiled. The more you love him, the better he will develop. Pet and love are the relationship between matter and spirit. Spoiling is to create a particularly rich material environment for him and give him whatever he wants. I think this is loving children, but I have no psychological choice. I don't talk to him or talk and laugh with him every day. As long as there is spiritual care, how to love is fine, and love is not bad.
44. Too lively. There is always a danger in life, that is, being occupied by excitement, and gradually mistakenly thinking that excitement is life, and there is no life except excitement. In the end, there is really only excitement and no life.
For those who cherish soul and life, loneliness should be a necessity of life.
46. Man is a practical plant. He is busy watering himself, fertilizing himself and bearing fruit, but he often forgets to blossom.
47. A clown may know more about the bitterness of life than a hero.
48. Writing is never to influence the world, just to settle down.
49. With the decline of myth and the rise of philosophy, people have to explain and arrange everything by themselves. Almost at the same time, he found himself unable to do it. Facing all beings who live like animals, the awakened wisdom feels a sacred happiness. Facing the universe, it realized its limitations and had to bear the pain caused by the lack of divinity. Man can't be a God without God. In Emerson's words, he is just a broken god.
50. However, the problem still exists: even if the later genius understands the former genius, the latter genius is still lonely in his own time. How can his evaluation of the previous genius be recognized by people?
5 1, mediocrity lasts longer than genius. Mediocrity is a craftsman in the spiritual workshop. As long as physical strength allows, it can always be done. Once the creative genius is exhausted, it is completely finished. Without any comfort, he became a waste in his own eyes. He is really a loser.
52. Most people belong to family, country and society. Genius belongs to existence and non-existence, minimum and maximum, self and eternity.
53. Perhaps there are always a few lucky geniuses, and it is through them that the world accepts them and other unfortunate geniuses they admire.
54. How to determine whether a career suits you? I think we should meet three conditions: first, we have a strong interest, even to the point where we must do it without spending money; Second, have a clear sense of meaning and be sure that your life value has been realized; Third, you can support yourself by it.
55. I like being surrounded by irrelevant people, and no one pays attention to me.
56. Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate.
57. The plot of the novel is fictional, but the details must be true.
58. It is true that people who live a long and prosperous life in love are not believers in love, but often romantic leaders.
Love is blind. As long as you are in love, it seems that one ugly covers all the ugly. Love is a discerning person. As long as it lasts, it really covers up all the ugliness.
60. If love is an art, then proper self-love is a quality, and only people with this quality can become artists of love.
6 1, people who love themselves will not have true love, only arrogant possession. People who don't love themselves can't have true love, only humble dedication.
62. As far as mutual understanding is concerned, the most important thing is the richness of the two souls themselves and their mutual attraction, not their familiarity or even their insight.
63. People used to be ecstasy. People who value love very much know best how many passionate careers have been swept away by ruthless years.
64. To prevent seeing through too much, you can't be persistent from now on.
65. Nobleness is the highest reward for the noble, and meanness is the greatest punishment for the poor.
66. Whatever is destroyed by trust and tolerance, suspicion and extravagance can't be saved resolutely, so let what is destroyed be destroyed.
67. We are absent-minded and careless. We feel that everything we do is boring, not very tired, because we have energy, but no future. It's boring, because we have a wish, but nothing.
68. Just like what makes the desert look beautiful is a well hidden somewhere. Because there is an inexhaustible source of love hidden in my heart, the most desolate desert has become a beautiful scenery.
As for a good woman, I mentioned two criteria-spirituality and flexibility. Spirituality is the understanding of the soul. A spiritual woman is born with wisdom, understanding and understanding the true meaning of jewelry. She is extremely simple, but there is an amazing depth in simplicity.
70. If you want to read western philosophy, you might as well read Russell's A Brief History of Western Philosophy, from which you can find your favorite philosophers and schools of philosophy and what you like to study, so that learning will be effective.
7 1, the reasons for silence are different: one is refusal to speak, obedience, or resentment; Because I dare not say, it is cowardice or resentment; Because it is inconvenient to say it, it is polite or hypocritical; Because it is cautious or sophisticated not to say it; Because needless to say, it is tacit understanding or separation; Because you don't say whether it's pride or detachment.
72. The only sure wait in life is the inevitable death. However, people seem to forget this and wait for something else, even to death. I am very sad and satisfied with this situation.
73. If all existence becomes worthless by accident, what will the eternal spiritual fire use to show its light?
74. Reading is essentially a process of self-discovery, full of surprises and pleasure.
75. Real learning is self-study.
76. A classic book is one that you want to reread the first time you read it. A classic book is a book that you feel like reading when you reread it.