As said at the beginning of the play, many TV plays have happy endings, in which the hero and heroine get married and live happily together. However, few TV dramas have developed their marriage life in detail, and this TV drama is an exception. A brief description of the hero and heroine get to know each other and enter the marriage hall, and then the focus comes. The life of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, the sloppy fatigue with children, and the previous happy and free life are already a feather, and the passion of both sides is there. Seeing this, I feel too deeply about my children under two years old at the moment.
I talked to my friends before. Although marriage is a lifetime thing, in fact, your life has changed little after marriage. You have one more relative at most. In this age when relatives are not so warm, it is not troublesome at all and it is not difficult to deal with. The biggest change is the mentality at best. When you get married, you will be psychologically stable. However, life is still the same, going to work and leaving the movie park on weekends.
The change of married life comes from having children, which is turned upside down and irreversible. Before there were no children, the family was just a world of two people, leisurely and carefree. After having children, children are our world and our life. They are parents for the first time. In the face of crying children from time to time, I suddenly grew up and learned to be parents, read all kinds of raiders books, and wanted to be good parents. They study the characteristics and colors of children's poop every day, and send photos to the whole family every time they are specially shaped ... Life has changed us. The man who used to have a shallow stomach and couldn't listen to shit when eating can stop eating when he has a child. ...
There will also be psychological changes. On the one hand, the psychological change is because I have become a mother, and my responsibility and anxiety are shrouded in my heart. On the other hand, many mothers are sloppy for two or three years after giving birth to their babies, and then they become particularly insecure. Just like Anglenala in the play, it is so realistic that it is the epitome of thousands of mothers in Qian Qian. ...
The heroine in the play takes care of the children at home and encounters a series of changes after marriage. Finally, when she saw her husband's bill records, she mistakenly thought that she was taking care of the children at home every day, while her husband was partying outside, staying out at night, cheating, and the straw could no longer be stretched out, and the heroine broke out. ...
At the same time, the hero also worked hard to transfer money to support his family, but his career was not particularly smooth. I worked hard, but I was forced to give up my self-esteem and three views. In order to earn that money, he handled all kinds of personal relationships with customers without conscience, and his dignity was trampled by customers ... He was beaten by customers and his face was hurt. This rainy day is their wedding anniversary. He bought flowers, but how dare he go home like this? So I wanted to spend the night in the car, but my wife misunderstood. ...
He didn't explain. On the contrary, the pressure of life broke out completely. Faced with his wife's accusation and his dissatisfaction, they quarreled and said "divorce", and then divorced. ...
Although I know it's ridiculous, the hero and heroine stepped over it when they threw the wedding ring after divorce (because the wedding ring was an oath left by heaven and vowed to be together forever, which was strung together at the end of the TV series). Crossing to 18 years ago, in the year when they met, in this parallel space, they took all their memories and re-pursued their lives. The man found his first love and succeeded together, and the woman also gained a lot of gold and high-quality men's hearts. Then a series of stories happened (it was interesting to see them by yourself), and finally men and women came together. They are determined to cross back, even if they don't want to live at that time. But in that future world, there are their children's books. During this journey, they found their true feelings, opened their hearts in communication, and strengthened their feelings for each other. They returned to the modern world hand in hand, and then they were happy together. ...
After watching this drama, perhaps the biggest thinking is, after knowing your future life, will you still choose your original lover? The question is, have people changed? Or has life changed? In fact, it is life. The stress of life has changed people's state. It is not that they don't love each other. It is just that it is difficult to open their hearts again and again in misunderstanding, and communication in front of trivial life has become a luxury. We are all trying to move forward and do our best, but in our accustomed life, we ignore each other's efforts, take everything for granted, don't understand, and don't know how each other got through it. More importantly, this is for. ...
So, if you can cross over, will you still choose your current object? Haha, I predicted from the first episode that they would choose each other eventually, because they had no substantive contradiction, but their passion was consumed by life. As for me, so am I. Even if I cross, I will choose my current object. I even hope that we can meet earlier, so that we can omit all the wrong passers-by and have younger time together ... as "Xu Meida with a broken mouth" said, I am very satisfied with my life now. Although I haven't seen tears behind my husband like Meida, sometimes we can. ...
In fact, this TV series is very thoughtful, especially recalling the appearance and tacit understanding along the way. I was deeply moved in the process of watching, and I would think and cry from time to time, but my literary talent is limited and I can't express the profound meaning in the play. I always feel that it will be much warmer for couples with children to watch this TV series more. Couples who are going to divorce may see the drama, and the divorce rate may drop. ...
In short, I recommend this TV series "Confession Couples", which is especially suitable for couples who have a chicken feather after marriage and find each other's initial heart and determination at that time ~ When they were young, the family was warmer and more harmonious, and when they were old, their marriage kept their lives and continued to get better ~