"High school is a high school for a group of people, and a university is a university for one person".

It is difficult for us to find real friends in college.

It is difficult to get along with roommates;

Difficulties in communicating with classmates;

It's hard to find like-minded friends.

Always say, the more you grow up, the more lonely you get. What is the significance of our college time?

However, Hong Min once said:

If you can't make a friend who talks about everything for four years in college,

There is no love worth remembering for a lifetime.

Because of scholarships, student cadres, honorary certificates and the number of places to join the party, I became cautious, flattering teachers and fighting with my classmates.

What's the point of your college learning to be intrigued, Nuo Nuo-only, hypocritical and deceptive just for a few thousand dollars?

Yes, it's boring,

One of the great pleasures of life is not to talk freely with three friends who have no friends.

1

University is a free and independent place. Everyone walks alone, but at the same time, they will find a partner for themselves.

It seems that in the eyes of others, you have friends, you are not alone, and you are successful.

However, college is different from high school.

In high school, we all have the same goals and values.

College is much more complicated than high school, and everyone has something to pursue.

Even in the same dormitory, several people who live together may not necessarily have the same topic.

Finding your own lonely friend is not a true friend.

How can this friendship last long if both sides have no intention of running a relationship?

I'd rather not find friends casually.

2

There are so many people in the university that everyone has different ideas.

Maybe you will meet some interested people in the class and in the club and want to make friends with them.

At first, because * * * was with the topic, we naturally appreciated each other and chatted enthusiastically.

However, when you find that the values of two people are completely different:

You like a simple life and don't pursue too high a goal.

She is too utilitarian, and there is always comparison in her words;

You like to write poetry, and poetry sighs life.

She yearns for material life and pursues prosperity;

This kind of diametrically opposed values, even if they can come together and become friends at first, will inevitably lead to differences and various contradictions and differences because of the huge differences in values.

When differences are not consistent, they can only become an unbridgeable gap.

If two people know from the beginning that the other person's values are different from their own, or even completely opposite, should they seriously consider whether this friend is worth interacting with?

There is no need to dwell on different ambitions. I'd rather be alone.

three

Little D has graduated, left the city where he studied and returned to his hometown.

She works in an IT company with low salary and long working hours.

Day after day, I gradually can't stand this working mode.

I want to change my job, but I dare not tell my parents easily for fear that they will be worried.

With colleagues in the company, the relationship is very shallow, and no one talks.

As a result, Xiao D found her former head nurse on WeChat and poured out all her recent troubles.

The head of the family deeply feels that little D, who was once confident, is now in such a difficult situation.

So I advised her and chatted with her.

True friends don't lose touch as soon as they graduate, but lend a helping hand when you need it.

A true friend is someone who trusts each other, respects each other, says everything, and can help you at critical times without hesitation;

A true friend is a person who dares to say no to his friends and say whatever he wants. He can't take a friend's kind reminder as his opinion.

A true friend is when you leave, you don't care, encourage each other and tell each other what will happen, but you miss each other infinitely after you leave.

A friend who is really kind to you deserves a lifetime of contacts.