1, eager for love, eager for love, but don't know how to love each other better.
Before college, most parents and teachers did not support or even oppose students' falling in love.
When they get to college, students can't wait to love with their own rights, just as they have just been freed.
When you meet someone you like, you know how to approach and express your feelings, but you don't know how to get along.
The frequent problem is that girls like to do things when they are in trouble, while boys like to escape when they are in trouble.
Finally, the relationship broke down and broke up!
2, inner loneliness, drift with the flow
Seeing people around me fall in love makes me feel so sweet and envious, so I also have the idea of falling in love.
Some people may feel that life is boring, so it is better to find someone to fall in love with and pass the boring time.
It's like saying, "Is it fun or serious?"
It is estimated that most people will faint just by listening to this question, let alone anything else. Not only did they not feel dizzy, but they also talked about love normally, which shows that their ideological views on love are not so serious, and they are largely lonely and drift with the flow.
I don't know what you want.
Say it if you feel something. If there are contradictions after being together, they will be separated.
I don't like it when I'm together, and I won't be sad when I'm apart.
This kind of people only consider the current feelings together, without defining their own standards and making long-term plans for their feelings.
4. Sexual traction
Ancient people got married and had children in their teens, while modern people generally get married later. It must be said that part of the reason for college students' love is sexual traction. Sex here refers not only to sexual behavior, but also to the stimulation brought by physical contact, which can partially satisfy the heart.
So all fast-food relationships are wrong? Maybe some people really get happiness, even if most people do it for other purposes, a few people will get happiness.
Undoubtedly, just like blind date, blind date can be happier than normal date until marriage. Now there is a more reliable blind date platform, such as online dating. After work, more and more friends around me find the other half through this platform. From refusing blind date before to slowly accepting it, it turns out to be more reliable. Blind date is actually a process of getting to know each other, and because of its strong purpose and high efficiency, the online matchmaker service attitude is not bad, and there are many offline activities, one-on-one manual service is still better.
Finally, I just want to say that love that doesn't aim at happiness, whether it's fast food or ordinary, is wrong. I don't agree. Falling in love is a process of knowing yourself and each other, so cherish yourself and each other.