The day when freshmen enter school is getting closer and closer, and colleges and universities are about to welcome the first batch of "post-90 s" college students. However, compared with their predecessors, the "post-90s" with independent personality and self-confidence have more differences with their parents in school-related matters-many children are looking forward to carrying easy bags and embarking on the road of registration alone, but their ideas are often "submerged" in the care of their parents. Do parents want to "send students to school collectively" when they report for freshman year? What should I put in my suitcase when I go to school, and what should I adapt to as soon as possible when I start school? In response to questions raised by citizens calling our hotline 2205000, this newspaper launched a series of reports from today to send practical "admission books" to freshmen and parents. "The child was admitted to a university in Beijing. His mother and I wanted to send him to report, but he insisted on going to school by himself. He also said that sending us to school affected his' independence'. " Yesterday, Mr. Liu, who lives in our family, called our hotline 2205000 to tell his troubles, and repeatedly asked reporters whether parents should send their children to college for the first time. The reporter understands that many citizens are as confused as Mr. Liu as the entrance time of freshmen approaches. Many parents naturally want to witness all aspects of the new school with their children out of concern, but their practice is often regarded as a "sweet burden" by independent children. My independence will start from the first day of school. "I am no longer a child, but my parents not only have to accompany me to school, but also let my grandmother, uncle and other relatives go with me." Xiao Zhang from Tianxin District was admitted to a university in Nanjing this year. Since receiving the notice, the whole family has had differences on the issue of accompanying newspapers. Xiao Zhang said that going to college means starting an independent life. When the time comes, the whole family will send it, which will leave a bad impression on teachers and classmates. In this month, Xiao Zhang confronted his parents every day, hoping that they would give up the idea of "going out with the whole family", but they never reached an agreement. Li Tongxue, who lives in Nanmenkou, was admitted to Hunan Normal University with high marks this year. Li Tongxue told his father decisively that he would report separately. He told reporters that since childhood, parents have taken care of everything. Now studying at home, we should take the opportunity to learn to deal with some things, otherwise we will never grow up. At the same time, he believes that it is best for students admitted to foreign universities not to let their parents send them, especially for families with poor economic conditions, which is both costly and laborious. The reporter found that some freshmen were embarrassed that their parents would accompany them to school. "Parents are too hard, send each other, and they have grown up and can be independent." However, some freshmen said that their parents have relatively rich social experience and are willing to go with them for safety reasons. Parents send their children to school out of concern, not doting. "I want to send them as much as possible. When children go out for the first time, they will bring a lot of things with them when they report to school, and they may also bring a lot of cash. I really don't feel at ease if I don't send them. " Citizen Zhou Junru is a mother who thinks it is necessary to send her children. Mr. Wang, who lives in Furong District, is hesitating whether to send his son to school. His son was admitted to a university in Guangzhou this year, which is not too far from home. Mr. Wang said that on the one hand, he is full of confidence in his children. When my son was a child, he went out by plane alone and had certain independent ability. It is not difficult for him to report for duty alone, but on the other hand, as a parent, he wants to see what kind of environment his children are studying in. Many parents believe that their children have never traveled far or left their parents, and they are sent to school out of concern, not doting. Children will still have to live on their own in the future. If parents are well prepared, they might as well let their children go to college for the first time. Do parents want to send it? The reporter interviewed Tang Haibo, director of the Mental Health Education Center of Central South University and doctor of psychology. He said that for this issue, both children and parents should respond with mutual understanding. Parents should understand their children's self-reliance, and children should also understand their parents' care and love. If the university is close to home, the children have strong self-care ability and are fully prepared to report to class alone, parents may wish to put down their psychological burden and let the children move forward by themselves. If, after comprehensive consideration, parents still think it is more appropriate to accompany their children to school, and children should not be rebellious, after all, sending your parents to school once will not affect your independence. On the contrary, you can learn a lot of life skills from it and lay the foundation for going to school alone in the future. However, it should be noted that parents don't have to interfere too much or do it for them after entering school, but they can make some tips. It is important to teach their children to cope with life alone. (Reporter Xu Yuan Intern Jassamyn Liu)