In fact, the real reason for not supporting it is that parents don't agree with the university and think it is useless to go to it. Of course, this idea is also based on the unsatisfactory economic ability. However, they don't really know the difference between going to college and not going to college. Because they are always blinded by the one-sided examples around them, they think that even if they go to college, they can only live like buying pork. In this case, it is better to leave society one year earlier to make money.
None of us can guarantee that we can live a good life when we go to college. However, if you don't go to college, it is difficult to have a good life. That is the reality. If you want to live a good life, you must make unremitting efforts, because there is nothing once and for all in this world.
Netizen 2:
Some parents think that going to college needs a lot of money, but the concept of university adventure park is affecting many families from rural areas. The parents of these families lack resources, and their children do not have much ability to help them "live within their means" after graduation. In the era of national universities, it is more difficult for college graduates to find jobs after graduation. If these parents see some extreme "factual cases" of unemployment after graduation, they will be interested in going to college.
Family financial constraints, the need for children to work as soon as possible to make money is another major reason we see. They also come from rural areas and some remote cities. Family difficulties, many brothers and sisters at home. Some changes have taken place in the family. These families need "laborers" to work as soon as possible to alleviate their families' difficulties, so they don't support their children to go to college psychologically and behaviorally.
Netizen 3:
Parents have the view that "universities are useless", which is correct, but he didn't explain it clearly. The real view of parents is that "college is useful for children, but not only useless for themselves, but also harmful". Why do they think so? Everyone can take a child to college from the perspective of parents and think about what life will be like in the future.
In China's traditional concept, it is "raising children to prevent old age", but how many children who go to college will return to their parents and work in their hometown? The answer is very little. The first choice for college students after graduation is at least the provincial capital cities, and they hope to settle down in these cities and live a happy life through their own efforts.
Netizen 4:
To tell the truth, no parents object to their children going to college. Even if they sell iron at a high price, they will provide education. Parents know that they don't want their children to make the same mistakes, because life is not easy and money is hard to earn. They will definitely let their children study hard. They were joking when they said they didn't want to study. Parents still follow the thinking of the older generation and only study hard.
But it is true that children are not supported to go to college, and there are many such situations in rural areas. Nowadays, college students are everywhere. It takes a lot of money to raise a child and get ahead. Buying a house and getting a wife in the city is another big event. Children can go to college, but old people can't start working. That's the truth.
Netizen 5:
You know, going to college is the main way for rural children to change their destiny. Compared with cities, most rural areas are backward in economic development, and parents of rural children can give their children little help in money or career. Rural children can only rely on themselves if they want to change their fate, and going to college is a very important way. Many people may have questions. People who haven't gone to college can earn a lot of money as bosses, while those who have gone to college can't find a job.
But this is a minority. People who can earn a lot of money without going to college may be smart, have good opportunities and can endure hardships. If the vast majority of rural children don't go to college, there are basically only two ways out, either working hard at home to earn a meager income, or going out to work, engaging in low-end jobs, living at the bottom of society, and the hope of attacking the middle and high levels of society is very slim.
Netizen 6:
Reading is a way for poor students to learn to change their destiny. I can't imagine that if I didn't take the college entrance examination and go to college, now I'm 20 years old. I estimate that I would have been married and become a mother, working somewhere to support my family, and my children would have become left-behind children. I'm not happy at all, the reality is really like this. In rural areas, many junior high school students who don't study are married and have children, but not many people can be happy. I am glad that I can go to college and go to the city to see the outside world. When I was studying in the countryside, I thought the small county was very big. I went to the high school in the county, only to find out that the small county was so small.
Thanks for reading, let me see a wider world. Although I will spend money when I go to college, I can make money without going to college. However, I still think it is good to go to college. I don't want my descendants to be bound in the countryside forever. I hope my children will have better conditions and better education in the future. I don't want to work on the assembly line all my life. I hope I can have time to do what I like. I wish I had more rights to choose my life instead of being forced to make a living. So I want to go to college, and I am very happy to go to college.