College is an important stage of life, a transitional period from immaturity to maturity and from semi-independence to independence. Under the influence of study, work and interpersonal relationship, this period has a wide psychological impact on college students, forming a variety of complex psychological misunderstandings and obstacles. Next, I will recommend some to you. I hope you like them.

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Crying is an instinctive emotion of human beings, and it is also one of the four basic emotions of joy, anger, sadness and fear. Psychologically speaking, people's emotions are influenced by the outside world and act on their hearts. When these emotions accumulate to a certain extent, they will inevitably show natural expression.

William Foley, an American psychologist, once studied the behavior of tears from the perspective of physiological psychology. In five years, he studied thousands of people who shed tears. The results showed that in a month, men seldom shed tears more than seven times, while women seldom shed tears more than 30 times. According to the motivation of tears, he divided tears into reflective tears such as onion tears and emotional tears. Emotional tears are what we usually call true tears. For example, we often see newlyweds crying at weddings, crying when quarreling with others and crying at funerals.

In terms of mental health, if a person can't cry, then he has emotional disorder and needs treatment. And physiologically, the secretion of tears will promote the normal metabolism of cells and prevent cells from forming tumors.

Psychologists believe that crying is a good thing, and people who love crying are not necessarily fragile people. People who cry when reading a book or watching a movie are much more determined than those who "don't cry lightly" at critical moments. People who cry don't mean they are unhappy. On the contrary, people who can't cry are actually some unfortunate people. ?