Go to college, not for work.

Many people around me told me when I filled in my volunteers after the college entrance examination.

It takes a skill to work hard in society, and a university's technical major can make a lot of money.

I felt the same way at that time.

Therefore, I chose a major called: new energy vehicle technology with secular vision.

Like many students in this major, everyone has great expectations and yearning for this major.

Think about what you can do if you learn technology.

But after several years of study, I found that all I studied in college was theory, so it was difficult to find a good job.

So after graduation, most of the students with the same major around chose to change careers.

Not only that, I also found that many classmates and friends around me are like this.

Then, there may be many people who think that I studied this major in college.

I have studied for so many years. If I work in other industries, will it be wasted? You read all the books for nothing?

To be sure, no.

University is a small society, which is a buffer for you to step into the big society.

How you develop in college depends on how you study in college correctly and how you use it to create value for yourself.

The result of your development in university will directly affect your formal entry into society.

02

Learn how to be a man.

As the ancients said, the way to a university is to be well-known, to be close to the people and to stop at perfection.

What do you mean?

The purpose of the university is to carry forward the aboveboard moral character, study and apply it to life, and make people reach the most perfect state.

My personal understanding is that a person's outlook on life, values and love should be correct.

You can't do things that harm others and benefit yourself, and you can't do things that are unethical. Everything is altruistic.

I have a deep understanding in the process of making small red willows, so I wrote this article.

Thanks to these five spiritual idols, I have formed my 24-year-old life.

Because they all have a kind and altruistic heart, which gives me the motivation to insist on being a little red willow.

It also makes my heart more positive and improves my happiness.

So, I want to write it to express my gratitude to them.

Let them know that they are people who deserve my gratitude.

In other words, encourage them to continue to be kind and altruistic.

Then, by the same token, in our life, for those who have helped us.

We should also be grateful. Only in this way can our life go further.

When necessary, use your gratitude to help those who also need your help.

Because your behavior may affect them and let them help others.

When you give others some help, your heart is actually happy, not what they give you.

But when you hear the heartfelt thanks of the people you have helped, your mood will become particularly happy and your soul will be sublimated.

03

Learn how to know yourself.

Many college students don't know what they are suitable for after graduation.

Even after working for three years and five years, I still haven't found my place.

Why is this happening?

I think it's because I don't know myself correctly and I don't know where my interests and ambitions are.

So, how do we know ourselves?

Refer to the following questions.

I want a comfortable life, what kind of job can I find in the future? How hard do I need to work for this?

In the next few decades, what can I do to bring happiness and diligence?

Under what circumstances do I feel most comfortable?

What can be done to maintain such a comfortable environment for a long time?

Of course, you can also join some school speaking, music, debate, reading and other clubs.

Take advantage of the opportunities provided by the university to get in touch with things that have never been touched before and challenge things that were afraid to do before.

Developing one's own potential is the greatest learning in colleges and universities.

But there will be many people who are afraid to try and feel that they are not competent enough and have insufficient materials.

What if the expert picks out the problem and hits the face?

If you think about it, you will cheat the guidance, and you will have the opportunity to meet some like-minded people.

Be bold, try more, express more, and don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, so that you can constantly understand your heart.

What is suitable, what is not suitable, what you like and what you don't like.

If you can really choose to do what you like, you really create your own value.