Things often have two sides, and sometimes we only see one side and even go to extremes. I think dating in college has both advantages and disadvantages.
College life is a beautiful life worth remembering. College students are basically 17 to 25-year-old young people, all of whom have experienced "purgatory" in high school. Many college students will feel relieved when they enter a beautiful university hall, and they will all change in their college life, including falling in love. In fact, it is not useless for college students to fall in love. First of all, I think that college students' falling in love can increase a person's sense of responsibility, and correct love can make a person mature from immaturity, thus enhancing the sense of responsibility to society. Since you love someone, you should pay for them, be responsible for them and make them happy. As long as the other person is happy, you are happy. Maybe you have a lazy habit that he or she doesn't like, then you may change for each other; Maybe you are greedy for petty gain, and the other party doesn't like it, so it is possible to change for the other party.
Secondly, love can make a person more ideal and ambitious. Ideal endows love with profound social connotation, which is the internal foundation of love. Love is the blending of two people's feelings, and the unity of loving each other and loving yourself. One party's expectation of personality will affect the other party's expectation of personality. One party's approval of the behavior will affect the standard of the other party's behavior; What one party says will affect the expression of the other party's voice. This mutual contrast of personality and mutual recognition of interests have formed the same ideal of life for both sides, thus inspiring men and women in love, encouraging each other, inspiring people's wisdom and subliming people's character.
As a form of interpersonal communication, love is bound to be bound by morality. A correct view of love can make college students respect the equality of personality more. If you love each other, you should give them freedom and happiness, and you should respect each other. Whether they accept their love, refuse their love, and give them love is their freedom. In fact, there are many touching love stories on campus. According to this newspaper, a man and a woman in love in a university unfortunately suffered from leukemia, but the girl didn't leave after knowing it. She cares more about her boyfriend, regardless of social discussion, begging money from passers-by on the street alone to treat her boyfriend. It can be said that their love is positive, beautiful and touching.
Is it beneficial for college students to fall in love? Actually, it is not. College students are in the transition period from adolescence to adulthood, and their minds and physiology are not fully mature, which is easy to produce temporary impulses. Some students can't accurately distinguish friendship from love in their communication with the opposite sex, which is easy to cause misunderstanding and bring trouble to both sides. Although college life is beautiful, you can relax appropriately, but you should still focus on learning. You can't do two things at once. Since you are in love, it is likely to affect your study. Some students mistakenly put love in the highest position in life, pursue love first, and indulge in emotional lingering, thus affecting their study and future. It is a tragedy that a female student in a university committed suicide by jumping into the lake because of emotional problems, which shows that the psychological quality of contemporary college students is still not high. There are also some college students who fall in love as a fashion. They think that universities can't keep up with the times if they don't fall in love. As a result, whether you like it or not, whether your personality is in harmony or not, you will chase after each other and fall in love indiscriminately. They "don't care about eternity, only care about possession", and regard love as a child's play, which will hurt each other and themselves.
College students basically have no ability and channels to earn money by themselves, and basically spend their parents' money. During love, it is inevitable to increase expenses. Every Sunday, there will be many "even numbers" on the university campus. They go to high-end restaurants and buy expensive things. They don't know that they are bleeding for their parents! Some college students choose lovers on the basis of money, but true love is not based on money.
We can't blindly agree with college students' love, nor can we arbitrarily oppose it. We should treat it with a correct attitude. College students should be aware of both the positive and negative effects of love.
For college students, when they meet love in college, they should take care of it, cherish it more, have a correct view of love and handle all kinds of relationships in love, so as to have a bright future and pure and beautiful sweet love.