I grew up in Hong Kong, received education and worked as a tour guide for many years. Now I teach in a university in Guangzhou.
This summer vacation, in cooperation with the social practice of students in the school, I used my social network to help the college contact many hotels and travel agencies in Guangzhou to provide students with work-study programs.
Considering that these freshmen have little social experience and shallow experience, I volunteered to be the guardian teacher of interns, and lent my home in the urban area to more than 10 students majoring in tourism to avoid them running between the university town and the urban area during their internship.
The students have lived in my home for a month, but some of their performances make me feel like a sore throat.
Rude hosts sleep on the floor and in their own beds.
Although my home is 130 square meters, it is still not a guest house, and there are not enough beds for all the students to sleep in. Results All girls slept in the guest room, 10 boys slept in the living room floor, and the other five boys slept in my room. What makes people laugh and cry is that a student actually told me: Teacher, we forgot to bring a mat. Can we sleep in your bed tonight?
As a result, three boys ran to my bed that night, and my host family had to sleep on the floor. Later, some students couldn't stand it, and told them privately that I was able to go back to bed. However, as long as I leave Guangzhou and return to Hong Kong, I can still find that my bed has been slept in again!
Many boys take off their coats and socks when they come back from work and sit on the sofa without taking a shower. Some even cross their legs in front of me, or cross their legs, or even bend their feet and chat like grandfathers.
I only provided them with a spare set of keys, but they didn't know how to arrange them reasonably. As a result, they often have to call or loudly call their classmates downstairs to open the door. Most of them shouted rudely: Open the door! Even a word? So-and-so, please come down and open the door for me? I won't tell.
Self-care ability: nobody cares if the toilet paper runs out.
Guangzhou is very hot in summer, so I enthusiastically cook mung bean porridge for my classmates. However, two or three times of experience told me that some students still have mung beans in their porridge bowls and lids. Sand? .
Some students don't actually clean their used underwear and socks every day. Instead, they hang up these dirty things and throw them around, and then use them the next day.
Due to the large number of people staying, the toilet paper I put in the toilet soon ran out. However, if I don't replenish new toilet paper in time when I go out, no one will look in the glove box and no one will go to the supermarket to buy toilet paper. Ironically, they actually. Luxury? To solve the problem of bagged paper towels.
Ignore the environment and run out of things? Being beheaded?
Since the students moved in, there are many stains on the floor of my house, such as waste paper, peanut kernels and shells, unopened packaging paper, food juice; The glass surface of the coffee table is no longer bright; The toilet smells too strong; There are more hairs in the toilet drain; More places to collect garbage at home; More and more cockroaches began to appear at home. None of the students took the initiative to clean during their stay.
Some students seem a little? Put things back where they were? Don't you know? Are bottles and cans of hair gel, shaving cream and other supplies frequent? In two places? ; Used tableware is dumped everywhere; Water heaters, stair lights, kitchen lights, bathroom lights and bathroom lights are often turned on after use.
One day, the electrical safety tripped, and it was found that a decorative lamp in the bathroom was burnt out, resulting in a short circuit of the wire. Since we found the root of the problem, I thought they would take the initiative to go to the electronics store to buy a new light bulb to replace it. Otherwise, they just put a note on the switch that controls the decorative lights. Don't pull the switch .
The society vigorously advocates a conservation-oriented society, but these favored college students have little awareness of cherishing and utilizing resources. When the air conditioner is turned on, the doors and windows are still wide open; While watching TV, I turned on the lights in the living room and dining room (guest room and dining room add up 18 light bulbs).
Get used to dealing with people. Teachers serve themselves.
The college invited the personnel manager of a hotel to the university town to give students a company introduction and on-site interview. As the second meeting coincided with the university meeting, I couldn't get rid of it. As a result, the hotel representative was busy on the podium for a whole afternoon. None of the more than 50 students at the scene took the initiative to ask the guests to have a rest, let alone how to buy a bottle of water for the speaker.
I sent 12 hotel students to practice. Every time I get in and out of the elevator, I hold down the elevator door for everyone to prevent it from suddenly closing. None of the students know how to replace me. Work? .
Team spirit, go your own way, regardless of others.
I only gave the students a set of keys. The original purpose is to hope that they can learn to take care of each other, organize themselves and send the keys to their first home every day. As a result, I found that students often wait downstairs for an hour or two because the person in charge of the key has not returned yet.
The manager of an internship unit sent the notice to some students and asked them to help convey the information. However, they did not fulfill their responsibilities, forgot to convey or distort the information related to the vital interests of other students, which caused inconvenience and adverse effects to enterprises and other students.
Work attitude, attitude towards work, and picky about work.
Some students started after they were hired? Pick the fat and choose the thin? . What's more, I asked me to help me change my job in the name of my parents, but when I got to work, I found that there was a gap with my expectations and left the company quietly without even saying hello.
In order to get a job opportunity, many students who went to practice vowed to recruiters that they must stick to their jobs until one or two days before returning to school at the end of August. However, when enterprises trust to send them jobs, when they have been working for nearly a month, and when they earn a little pocket money, they use various excuses (including many? I'm only a freshman, and I'm young, so the old people and parents at home just want to invite them home? Wait a minute. ) and ask for leave to go home.
Some students were late on their first day at work. Appear? After that, I didn't apologize at all, and I tried to deceive the person in charge of the company with some extremely naive reasons.
Some students forgot to bring their photos and ID cards when they reported to the enterprise, but they were afraid to take responsibility for their mistakes, and they also shirked that other students did not inform them.
These are the problems of some students I found this summer vacation. Although this follow-up survey is not systematic and comprehensive; The respondents are not representative; And the examples discussed are more specific and trivial. However, the ancients said? In my humble opinion? I believe that the examples reflected do reflect some problems that need to be improved urgently in the comprehensive quality of domestic students at present.
The author noticed that everyone should be ashamed of it!
I remember in Hong Kong, the primary school teacher taught us:
People should be responsible for themselves and others, not allowed to shirk when making mistakes, and dare to take responsibility;
People should be honest and trustworthy, and can't break their promises. Respect teachers and care about people and things around them; Be polite to people. Say hello to everyone? Necessary; Do as you would be done by.
At the same time, the teacher also taught us to pay attention to our appearance, manners and personal hygiene. Besides keeping our clothes clean and tidy in public, don't let others see our teeth when eating, let alone make the sound of chewing food.
Little by little? Little things? Over time, it has been deeply imprinted in my mind now, so I dare say that I will hardly make the mistake similar to the above case again.
In the past, the tour guide took a group to South Korea. The local tour guide told us that South Korea is an extremely polite country. In public, the younger generation of South Korea must give up their seats to their elders. Never drink with your elders without your parents' consent. Even if the elder invites you to drink, the younger generation should look away and not drink in front of the elder.
I watched a program about Japan, and the most touching part was: I came home from outside, and the first thing I did when I opened the door was to say politely: I'm back; Before eating, the younger generation respects their elders first, and then raises chopsticks to eat together; You not only classify the garbage, but also arrange what kind of garbage should be discarded on which day of the week in an orderly way.
I want to make it clear that I am not trying to dig the scars of my own nation, but as an educator, I should have a conscience, an obligation and a responsibility to correct some bad social phenomena.
When I apologized to the management of the enterprise for those students who didn't know how to cherish the opportunity and resigned early during the internship, the other party said earnestly: the talents needed by this society should not only have sufficient ability, but also have a healthy work attitude and correct interest orientation. ? Seriously, I'm ashamed!
Yes! Everyone knows that students are the masters of the future, especially students from key universities are regarded as the mainstay of the future society, and their words and deeds will herald the future image of our country. When China rises peacefully, we should pay more attention to strengthening and improving students' quality education.
Sure, as long as the parents agree? Is it father's fault to raise or not to teach? , the teacher agreed? Poor teaching, lazy teachers? , student status? People don't learn, don't understand? It is never too late to mend.
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