First, chasing girls now needs money. Most post-80s girls basically send her home, give her some small gifts and chat more without spending a lot of money. But now many girls need to give gifts every holiday, and they will compare the prices of gifts with each other. For many boys with poor material conditions, it is basically over before it starts. Of course, for those rich second generation, there is no need to chase girls!
Second, it takes too much time and energy to chase girls now. I wonder when college students will have so many festivals. All kinds of festivals in China, foreign festivals, solar festivals and lunar festivals need boyfriends to accompany them, as well as a little romance and surprise. Most straight men feel overwhelmed.
Third, boys belong to small fresh meat. At present, the aesthetic standards of most girls determine that most boys' looks are not up to standard. Even some girls like boys with makeup.
Of course, there are many good girls worth chasing!