1. Independence is the first principle.

Economic independence and emotional independence are indispensable. Never pin your hopes on others or take advantage of your parents. Support yourself first and then talk about freedom.

2. Adhere to high-quality input and output.

The quickest way to abolish a person is to confine him to his present job and be too busy to grow. The second is to let him indulge in entertainment to death. Cognitive ability is standing still. Therefore, don't stop investing in study time outside your brain and work, don't open the best shortcut to the gap with your peers, and actively invest and output. At this age, you should work hard. Get into the habit of reading and build your own knowledge base. It is like an external hard disk of your brain, which will benefit you immensely.

3. Cultivate the skills of saving points

This kind of knowledge or skill will accompany you all your life. In addition to work, it can either adjust your mood, accompany you through loneliness and recharge quickly; Either play a role in creating benefits, raising wages, promotion, and part-time sideline.

4. Cherish time

The drama you are chasing now may not be remembered next month; For most people, playing games is really a waste of time; If you can control the time of playing mobile phone, you are already one step ahead of your peers!

Never give up your career for affection.

Girls, in particular, must not overestimate their feelings, let alone give up their careers for feelings. No one wants to love a worthless person! Therefore, we should have our own economic foundation so as not to lose ourselves in a relationship. Keeping yourself and getting better is far more important than compromise!

6. Don't jump ship after work.

Many friends who are very picky about their jobs and change jobs three or four times a year are just like out-of-season Chinese cabbage. Sell it at a low price, and no one wants to take it. Therefore, job-hopping should be cautious, be careful of risks, and talk about job-hopping when your ability comes up!

7. Don't care so much about salary and stability.

The only reason why you quit your job is that this company can't meet your needs for rapid progress. Look into the distance. What kind of life do you want? What ability do you lack now? Studying more when you are young is really more important than earning 1000!

8. Strive to become a professional in a certain field.

I chose the direction that suits my own field, and began to study in an encirclement and suppression way. I spent a year tackling key problems, intensive cultivation and in-depth study, which brought substantial growth and precipitated into professionals in the industry.

No matter how much you have achieved, don't be proud.

Don't lose your temper in applause. Praise from others is just a courtesy, not your proud capital. People who are sober and low-key are more likely to see themselves.

10. Stay away from homogeneous circles and meet different people.

Social circles are too limited. The university only associates with people in the same dormitory/class, and only works with people in the same position/company, which will narrow your path. Learn as much as possible about different circles, deal with all kinds of people, build your own reader base, and constantly optimize your own circles.

1 1. Never dismantle the desk of the leader/teacher yourself.

EQ is more important than IQ. If the leader/teacher is always embarrassed in public, the road to promotion and salary increase/evaluation of professional titles will be extremely difficult. Learn to help others protect their face. It is also to help yourself gain popularity.

12. Be a good person, but don't be a bad person.

Helping others when you are free is a plus. Sacrificing personal time to cater to others is a negative score.

13. Leave 20% of yourself to anyone.

Keep 20% strength at work, and be able to surprise leaders and colleagues at any time; Keeping 20% mystery in getting along with others can keep feelings fresh forever.

14. Sincerity and kindness are really important. Don't trust those communication skills too much. Sincerity and kindness always have the most touching power. Hypocrisy can always be seen through Sincerity can win people's hearts.

15. Make money and start managing money.

Money can get rid of 80% of the troubles in your life. If you don't want to be trampled on, you must make money and pay attention to financial management. If you have money, you have the confidence to defend the life you want; And have more courage to face unexpected accidents.

16. Spend more time with your parents.

When you are in your twenties, no one may tell your parents that they are dying, so no matter how busy you are, make more phone calls and have more meals together to satisfy what they want and try to satisfy them.

17. Youth is not capital. Health is.

Take good care of yourself in the face of illness and death. Life is so fragile. Only health is the most important thing! Therefore, exercising more now can not only make you have a healthy body and get a better figure, but also gain the fierceness against laziness and stick to the persistence and concentration of the plan. These three characteristics can help you do anything!

18. Develop a regular routine and ensure adequate sleep.

A good sleep may be the biggest shortcut to make your life better. 90% excellent people win early to bed and early to rise. Sleep actually determines the efficiency of life, because sleep determines the mood, state and concentration of the next day.

19. Learn to clear negative emotions

No matter how mature people are, they will also have various emotions such as pessimism, irritability and jealousy. The difference is that they will not be dominated by emotions and will not be slaves to emotions. Don't feel that everything is meaningless because of depression and lose the motivation to go on; Don't say something irreparable just because you are angry. Empty your negative emotions. No one likes to associate with a person with long-term negative energy!

20. Stop saying what you like. Comfort is the most important thing.

The same is true of people and goods around you. From the beginning of buying clothes, instead of buying cheap clothes, choose clothes with texture that suit you, gain self-confidence from proper clothes and live a truly advanced life.