All universities are the same. Don't take its so-called influence too seriously, and don't regret the past. As long as you are not particularly determined, you will be decadent in the university metropolis because of the changed environment. You may have discovered this. Now, there are people around you who hold textbooks all day, even if they have a short break. Just as only a few people who are absent from class every day are regarded as foreign bodies, such people are rare.

Why do you despise people around you? Are they too decadent to be friends with you? Or do you hate that city completely? I am very similar to you in this respect. At first, I also hated the people where I lived. They talk too fast, are full of dirty words and twitter like Japanese. Sometimes when new arrivals say they are locals, they are always inexplicably unhappy, so they always say to themselves: This place is too rubbish. who the hell are all these people？ But think about it carefully, isn't the classmate around me a local, and he's quite nice, and then you'll find that there are so many people who make you less annoying. So, you can hate a city for no reason, but you can't hate everyone in this city.

No one can fully explain loneliness. There are advantages and disadvantages, depending on how you look at it. I think you know, and you're tired of listening to this nonsense. I have always hated and admired you science and engineering people. What I have learned is very practical and has broad employment prospects. But only if you have solid professional knowledge. Since you obviously feel lonely, it means that you have enough time to do some practical things, such as going to the library to master more professional knowledge. If you can't calm down, it may be difficult to do so. Looks like you haven't found a boyfriend or girlfriend yet. It may be a good medicine, although it may temporarily relieve your loneliness. You can try it if you want. Also, don't always think that you still have a long time. In fact, you will graduate in a blink of an eye, and you will find nothing more enjoyable than being a student in the future. Come on.

I don't know what you do in the dormitory every day. Do you waste a lot of time online, too? In fact, I don't deserve to blame you, because I don't cherish time and have no good grades, and like you, I basically only communicate with people in my dormitory. But now I won't hate and complain about anything. I didn't do as well as you in the college entrance examination. I only took the junior college exam. Now I am a sophomore. I don't think there is much time, because when I graduate, I can't study well, play well and have no hobbies. I can't help sighing: How can I live like this?

Regret is regret after all, and neither you nor I can change it. What we can do is to avoid more regrets. Nothing can fail. Let's look at it more broadly, you know. Everything will be in the past, including you and me now. When you find that everything is in the past, you will find that everything is so beautiful, just like when you are bored, you will often miss the senior three who frowned and scolded the exam. After many years, you will still miss your unsatisfactory college life, and now it may even make you smile.

I don't know if you still have the heart to study professional knowledge, so it's unlikely that you won't attend classes. If you can change the best, if you really can't learn, you can't waste time. I hope you can cultivate your hobbies, sports or art, and it is best to master a skill.

Talk about communication. The whole society is developing in a more open direction. Besides, we live in China, a magical social network, and self-isolation is a dead end. I am unsociable and hate many people, but I hate them. You can't avoid them when you have to deal with them. Just like when we encounter a problem that needs to be solved by the government, we still go back to them, knowing that 90% of them will shirk their responsibilities. Therefore, even if you can't get along well with them, you should at least maintain a general relationship.

Haha, it's good to see your last point. Good friends are like fine wine, which lasts for a long time in Micari and deserves your pride and happiness. You should cherish it. Besides, you should make more friends. Maybe many people are not as miserable as you think. Maybe it's not that others are avoiding you, but that you haven't opened your heart.

Maybe I saw that you and I have too many similarities and said so much unconsciously. People sometimes have this quirk, but they have more to say to strangers.

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