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I am in college, and my girlfriend is pregnant with a child. We insist on keeping the children, but the consequences will be serious and unbearable. What should we do?
First of all, in terms of age, at the age of 20, you are still a child and don't know much. It is difficult for you to take care of children now. Secondly, economically speaking, you are still in school and have no financial ability to raise children. It is difficult for a girlfriend to have a baby, and she can't go to work. Your financial resources are a problem. You are still at school, and giving up your studies will affect your future career. If you want your children and wife to have a good life, you must have a good job and a certain financial source. Finally, your business is still very troublesome, and your family doesn't agree. Although love is supreme, reality is more cruel than love. Take the children away. In a few years, you will be independent and have good economic conditions. It's good for children. . . . . . . . Remember, love is not enough, you need bread. . . . . . As soon as your financial conditions are good, you can be filial to your parents, and others will not make irresponsible remarks about you.

After reading your follow-up, you are very contradictory. In fact, you know that it's no good for a child to stay, but what you consider is her feelings. You are very responsible. I appreciate it. But now you have to face the cruel reality. Talk to her. You want her support now. She loves you, she will understand you, she has paid for you, and you will love her more. I hope you'll think about it later. Beating children now there is painless abortion in the hospital. Just have a good rest. Nothing will happen. I'm a gynecologist.