People are lazy and easy to form path dependence in their comfort zone. Although they know where the direction is, they can't act and stick to it. For example, people in modern society know that health is very important. Obesity can lead to many diseases. Every year, they make a plan to lose weight. When they go shopping, they will buy a whole set of sports equipment. Except for three minutes of enthusiasm in the first few days, a year passed and they never exercised again. Now, they should eat, drink and sleep, but they just don't exercise. Male friends may be addicted to playing games. The purpose of female friends to lose weight may be to play with friends. As long as they are married, many people can't exercise.
There are some exceptions in life. There are more or less people around. No matter how the external environment changes, they will stick to what they plan to do, such as fitness and running, writing day after day, and controlling the sugar in their diet. You may say that such people have strong willpower, which is true, but willpower alone is not long enough. Behind willpower must be sober, have long-term goals, and dare to delay their realization. The internal driving force ensures the gradual completion of long-term goals.
So, how to tap your own internal driving force?
Every company has its own mission and vision. A company without a mission can only be regarded as a company that can make money in the short term at best, rather than a truly great enterprise. Mission and vision are like a person's initial heart, Do not forget your initiative mind, to achieve your ultimate goal. To find the internal driving force, we must first make clear the initial intention of the individual. With the initial intention, there will be internal driving force.
Since internal drive is so important, how can we use it to achieve a perfect personal life? We can make efforts and progress mainly from three aspects.
First, good health.
The body is the capital of revolution, and life is the source of everything. It is foolish to talk about dreams without living. Imagine, even if you have a great dream to realize, how long can you last if you don't pay attention to your health? Therefore, first make clear the initial intention of health, then decompose the goals and key results of how to achieve them, such as sleeping, eating and exercising, and finally start from three aspects: going to bed early, eating healthily and exercising, not to mention having no time, and putting down electronic products. All this time is available.
Second, work hard.
A few years later, some college students in the same group have been promoted and raised, and you are still repeating the work that you can be familiar with in the original position for half a year. Looking at the status quo, I was particularly angry and began to be passive. The more negative you are, the less opportunities you have, and eventually an infinite cycle of negative orientation is formed. As kazuo inamori, the Japanese god of management, said, we need to strive for perfection in our work, so as to achieve each other, our company and ourselves. How to improve? You can open your heart, don't be too self-centered, actively learn the knowledge around your work, dare to challenge and practice, don't avoid problems, and think more about solutions. This is a virtuous circle. I don't care about two purposes, one is promotion and salary increase, and the other is to exercise my ability so that I can start a business and achieve something one day. Through continuous progress in work, it is not difficult to achieve these two goals.
Third, hobbies.
Work can only ensure food and clothing, and hobbies can achieve life. This sentence was taken out by many bosses for publicity. Neither you nor I am the boss. We dare not sign, dare not say in front of colleagues and leaders. We can only silently hide it in our hearts. Although it will not expand that much, in today's society, hobbies are indeed an important factor that can promote personal success. It's not that hobbies are so powerful, but as an internal driving force, hobbies can make individuals keep practicing, working hard and being tireless. After years of accumulation and precipitation, you have abilities and advantages that others don't have. When the time comes, opportunities will be given to those who are prepared and those who are prepared to achieve.
In short, relying on external forces in the short term and internal driving forces in the long term will make your life go further and make your life more exciting.