1: The old man is old, the scenery of his youth is gone forever, his ambition has not been realized, he is very sad inside, and he has lost confidence and hope in life, which may be the reason for her stubbornness.
Old people have their own ideas, which have been formed all their lives and are difficult to change. Don't worry, try to make the old people happy, and sometimes follow suit, don't be too persistent.
Your mother is a very strong woman, and she often doesn't want others to arrange her life. She thinks she has the ability to solve everything and doesn't want others to see her helplessness in life. This is probably the reason for her stubbornness.
In addition, the unhappiness of the family is also the reason why she is sad, because you didn't mention your father's role in it. In the real world, it seems that we can't escape the temptation of money and power. We have been tortured by money and power all our lives and can't get rid of it. Even when we are old, in the eyes of others, we will remind you that I have no money and I have insufficient power, which will make us lose face, so we will lose our temper if we keep unhappy things in our hearts for a long time. Especially your mother, there is a big gap.
5. Guide her slowly, such as: What is happiness? What is the most important thing in one's life? Let her rethink, change her mind a little, make her peaceful and easy-going, and feel that everyone is good to her instead of just seeing the snobbery of others.
6. Let the elderly participate in some conscious social activities, such as singing, dancing, painting and calligraphy. This will make her feel more open, positive and optimistic. Get in touch with more people and get to know more people. Nine times out of ten, life is unhappy, and life is short. We should see the bright side and happy side of life more, and turn all negative things into positive things. Try it, we will find a lot of happiness every day. I suddenly thought of a short story and found it for you:
The king and prime minister of a country are discussing something. No matter whether the king asked him if it was a good thing or a bad thing, the prime minister would answer, "Good thing! Your majesty "
One day, the king accidentally cut off his little finger while eating fruit and asked, "Prime Minister! Do you think cutting off the little finger is a good thing or a bad thing? " The Prime Minister said, "Good stuff!" So the king was furious, put Zaiying in a dungeon and took a group of people to hunt. He doesn't want to fall into the trap of Middle-earth. Fortunately, because not all people (lack of fingers), only the king survived the bad luck.
Recalling the Prime Minister's words, the king who escaped from death hurried back to the palace to release the Prime Minister from the dungeon and asked the Prime Minister, "Is it a good thing or a bad thing that I locked you in the dungeon?" The Prime Minister replied: "Good! Great! If you hadn't locked me in the dungeon, I'm afraid I would have been eaten by the natives. "
7. Therefore, we should be open-minded in everything and treat everything in life as a good thing. Try it, learn to solve your mother's troubles and make your mother happy! The most important thing is to learn to save yourself and learn to be free!
Well, the above is my personal opinion, for reference only. I sincerely hope your mother is positive and optimistic!