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"I didn't expect my wife to really serve the sentence just after the college entrance examination, and my son divorced after the college entrance examination." Gig was a little depressed and lonely. He shook his head and sighed, completely losing his arrogant expression.

When Jig and his wife finished the divorce formalities, Jig cried with a divorce certificate in his hand, but his wife smiled happily at the divorce certificate and then breathed a sigh of relief, as if he had finally waited for this day.

Yes, before that, when my son was in the third grade of primary school, my wife told Jige that she would divorce him when he finished the college entrance examination. Later, she said it many times. He always thought that she was just saying that she couldn't really get divorced, and he also felt that his wife could not live without herself.

"My son divorced after the college entrance examination." That man is only talking about it as his wife. It turns out that she has been preparing for this for eight years. Only then did Jigger realize that his wife had made up her mind, I'm afraid.

In fact, by the time my son went to high school, his wife had hardly quarreled with him, and she had never had any conflicts with him again. However, she put her mind on her son. Even any housework at home, the wife is no longer crying for his help as before, but doing it silently.

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His wife's behavior made Jigger always think that her own man's means subdued her. His wife must be afraid of herself, so she was so obedient. And in the circle of friends, he is one of the few men who is not afraid of his wife, which is something he often shows off in front of his friends.

He always said to his friends, "Women should listen to men and look at my wife. No matter how late I came home after drinking, she never said anything and never called to urge me to go home. When I get home, I don't have to do anything, even the children don't have to worry about me. " A face of pride

At that time, when Jigger said this, he also laughed at other friends and thought that they really didn't have any skills. His wife called and went home at once, unlike a man. Now think about it, in fact, at that time, his wife had no him in her heart, and he actually enjoyed himself thinking that his wife was afraid that he would be so obedient.

Over the years, his wife has taken care of everything at home, and he has never helped her, because as long as his wife gives him a little request, he will find her very annoying. Even if his wife was ill and asked him to take her to the hospital, he would say, just let your sister go with you. It's so melodramatic.

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I don't know where to start, but my wife stopped talking to him, and even my father-in-law didn't mention it to him when he was in hospital. Later, he heard from his husband's family's neighbors that his father-in-law was actually seriously hospitalized and almost died. He also feels smugly that his wife is really considerate and doesn't want him to work with him.

Now that I'm talking about it, Gigg just wants to know why his wife was so calm afterwards. In fact, she has endured it for so many years, and finally when the child grows up, she can leave him completely. It turns out that my wife has been preparing for this moment for a long time

She doesn't complain, she doesn't make noise, just because, in her long marriage with a man, she has saved enough chills and disappointments. The man's disgust and indifference have made her make up her mind. When the child is an adult after the college entrance examination, she will definitely go out from this chilling home.

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"I'm really confused!" Gig is still complaining about himself. After the divorce, he has to do his own laundry and cooking, and take care of all the housework by himself, but how can he live as leisurely as before without his wife? No other woman in the world can take care of this family like a wife.

Now "my son went to college and my wife divorced me." Middle-aged men regret coming too late.

Of course, what's the use of regret? Who let himself earn more money at the beginning, but dislike his wife, look down on his wife, and even treat his wife as a free nanny? Unexpectedly, the last person to cry was himself, and the last person to laugh was his once weak wife.

In fact, Giger's wife has made a choice when he doesn't like herself, but she is gathering strength and waiting for her son to grow up. A woman's heart is soft, but once she is disappointed and her heart is cold for a long time, her heart will refuse you. It's the same with or without you. Why did she spend her life in cold disappointment?

Therefore, both men and women, please remember: in marriage, one party is always actively making sacrifices for the lover, while the other party does not know how to cherish and takes everything the other party does for granted; One side often retreats from difficulties and silently bears all the hardships, while the other side is habitually dependent and never knows how to be grateful.

This kind of marriage, in fact, is like that piece of ice, which looks intact, but the cracks are slowly accumulated under the ice, and the final outbreak may be the moment when one foot steps on it. By this time, even if I regret it, I am afraid there is no room for redemption.