1. Pretend "like"
When your superiors or you need to be close to someone, what does ta say, ta's hobbies ... even if you are not interested at all,
You also have to pretend that you like it and you are interested. This will make the other party think that you are on the same frequency.
Will accept you soon,
You can achieve what you want faster!
2. Pretending to be "confident" and "pretending to be confident" will not lead to real confidence.
True self-confidence,
Or from their own strength and successful experience.
Pretend to be confident.
In fact, it is a behavioral method used to gain real confidence.
Whether we are brave or not, we should act like a confident person. The purpose is to let us seize the missed opportunity because of lack of confidence and face the challenges we should face.
3. Pretend to be "indifferent" when you are in a bad mood, pretend to be indifferent and indifferent, and don't expand the harm and influence of bad things on you. Because those stupid things are not worth mentioning, don't expose your emotions in front of everyone, it will only become the laughing stock of others. Emotional stability will make your core stable and become a high-energy person. .
Step 4 learn to play dumb
It's hard to be confused. In life, people who play dumb,
Often know how to "retreat for progress".
On the surface, "confused" people seem to have temporarily lost their own interests, but in the long run, they are the final winners. Focus your attention on something more meaningful,
There will be a better ending.
5. Play dumb appropriately. Many people are too keen to show their cleverness, but they don't know that they are good at pretending to be "stupid".
It is easier to get opportunities.
People who play the fool, seemingly weak, seem to be uncompetitive and will be ignored by many competitors. In fact, people who are good at playing dumb can not only avoid competitors and save their strength, but also learn more knowledge in a low-key way.
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6. Know how to pretend to be "weak"
It is unwise to try to be brave in everything; It is easy for people who show their strength to hit a wall and suffer losses. Learn to pretend to be weak properly, and with the help of others,
Put yourself on the weak side.
On the contrary, it is easier to achieve the goal.
People who are better at showing weakness tend to be more resilient and think more about themselves.
"Pretending" with high EQ * 1. Someone borrows money from you, and you know you can't pay it back if you lend it to ta. Learn to pretend to be poor when you don't want to borrow it. 2. The stronger the ability, the more modest it is. The so-called head shot,
Don't be too exposed, otherwise it will easily lead to disaster. Walking at night, strangers talk to you, pretend that you can't see or hear, and speed up, otherwise it will only increase your danger.
*4. When a girl lives alone,
Don't let outsiders see that it is a state of living alone, and create some traces of their lives.
Pretend to be two people, and there is a man at home.
When eating with colleagues or leaders, you should pretend to be drunk properly and don't try to be brave. *6. Don't show off how rich you are in front of relatives and friends.
Pretend to be simple, or you will get a bunch of "friends and relatives" who borrow money from you and have never even talked to each other. *7. When you meet someone with malicious intentions,
Don't talk to people directly. Pretend you didn't hear or agree with what ta said. It's not too much.
Find another opportunity to leave. *8. You have seen through some things. Pretend you don't know. If you see through them, you won't tell the truth. Save face for each other. *9. Some people and things need to pretend to be polite.
In order to save a little trouble and maintain a relatively balanced and friendly relationship. 10. For people who have just met or are not familiar with it,
Pretend to be indifferent, don't let others think you are easy to talk to, and trouble you with everything.
Four situations can't be "installed"
Light 1. When you trample on your own bottom line, you don't need to pretend to be peaceful.
Fight back directly,
Let them know that you are not easy to bully.
Mi 2. Don't pretend you don't know,
This kind of behavior will only make jokes in front of smart people. Step back 3. Don't play fat in the face.
No money, pretending to be rich,
This set of "equipment"
It is necessary to pay the price of consumption in advance. *4. Don't pretend in front of your parents, because your parents are your strong backing and will always support and protect you.