Nowadays, most college students are only children, and the common problem of only children is selfishness. Because each family has only one child, parents give almost all their love to their children. However, there is no special formal study and training in family education in China, so parents use their own methods to educate their children with their own emotions.

Many parents worry that their children will suffer in the future, and the word "suffering is a blessing" is silly to them. Therefore, they rarely educate their children to share, because after sharing, their own things are gone. This is completely different from non-only child families. In any case, parents always hope that things between the two children can be shared with each other and be humble to each other, because they are a family.

In the face of outsiders, parents rarely ask their children to share their own things. At most, they exchange things for things, and everyone's toys and the like are exchanged for fun. This kind of education makes children learn to be selfish from an early age, and will only blindly ask for "taking advantage" instead of sharing what they have.

Therefore, we can often see young people on the bus turn a blind eye to the old, the weak, the sick and the pregnant, look at the injured people at the scene of the accident, and see them swearing or even fighting in public to grab things. These are all manifestations of the lack of family education.

Therefore, after going to college, they will not get along well with their dormitory classmates, because they will not be willing to sacrifice their own interests to benefit others. When they meet what they want, they snatch all kinds of things, resulting in no real friends around them. Of course, you can't blame yourself. Parents themselves have unshirkable responsibilities.