From the girl's words, we can feel that she is not happy in this indigenous family. She was depressed because of her father's various control measures. The girl said that she fell in love with a boy in senior three, but they didn't do anything deviant. After her father found out, he continued to abuse her, beating her in public at the school gate and cutting her hair with scissors.
Her father is also a domestic abuser. He will mentally "destroy" her mother and son and beat her mother and brother. Because her father's violent behavior has always brought her strong fear and insecurity, but also left her with fear of family background.
She felt overwhelmed by her father, who was often very strict with them, and she could not control any breathing space. So in the letter she left, she also wrote that she hoped that everyone would not save her, but saving her deepened her pain. From this sentence, we can also feel that she seems to have no nostalgia for the world and no hope for life.
A family therapist once said that a person has an inseparable connection with his or her family of origin, which will affect his or her life. Unfortunate birth will subtly affect children's personality, make them feel inferior and make them feel less warm in the world.
In fact, there are many such fathers in our lives. In their view, strict discipline may be correct, but applying it to children may be a kind of harm. The departure of this female college student should also cause some parents from different backgrounds to think about how to treat their children correctly.