There are three or four or five or six or even more people living together in a dormitory, and there must be a unified schedule adjustment. Only when we coordinate and abide by * * * can we reduce disputes, eliminate friction and maintain normal life order.
If you are a "night owl", you will go to bed very late at night, and then wash your face and sleep when all the dormitory members are asleep. This will easily wake others up and affect others' rest. Over time, you will arouse the resentment of your roommate.
Therefore, all members of the dormitory should try to unify their living time and reduce the gap between work and rest. If something really happens, members who get up early or go to bed late should also try to reduce the influence of sound and light on their roommates.
2. Don't engage in "small groups"
In the dormitory, we should treat everyone equally, don't favor one over the other, make friends with some people and alienate others.
Some people like to be close to the people in one of the dorms, and they always whisper to the same person at ordinary times. No matter what you do, you go in and out alone, which is easy to cause unhappiness among other members of the dormitory and think that you disdain to associate with them.
In this way, your's relationship may be good, but it alienates others, which is not conducive to the establishment of a harmonious dormitory relationship, and it is not worth the candle. We are not opposed to the establishment of profound friendship, but we must never sacrifice the width and breadth of friendship.
Don't invade your roommate's privacy.
Everyone has his own secrets and enough curiosity.
We should not try our best to explore the privacy of roommates. The other party turns a field into privacy and is particularly sensitive to this field. Any topic that tries to break into this field is not welcome.
It is especially important to note that you must not rummage through your roommate's clothes without his consent. Pay special attention to this problem, don't just think you are an acquaintance and ignore the details.
In addition, sharing a dormitory, sometimes it is inevitable to know some privacy of roommates. We should also keep our mouths shut and tell others that this is not only disrespectful to our roommates, but also immoral.
4. Take an active part in group activities
Dormitory activities are not only an activity, but also an important form of connecting feelings between roommates, so they should actively participate in cooperation.
Don't treat group activities as a purely boring behavior that costs money and effort, and show disdain. In fact, they are all emotional inputs and indispensable life experiences.
5. Care about others, help if you are in trouble, and ask for help if you are in trouble.
Good interpersonal relationships are based on mutual help. You should have a good sense of cooperation in the dormitory. When others are making the bed, you should think about whether this kind of thing needs help. Someone is ill. Would you like to go to the canteen to help him buy food?
Mutual assistance is indeed indispensable, because it is difficult for people to live independently at any time. Even if it is only a small matter, mutual care and help can deepen friendship. It goes without saying that we should give our roommates care and help in our daily life and study. When they are in trouble, we should lend them a helping hand.