One,
I remember last year, I was drinking with several fellow villagers in Handan in Beijing, and we talked about a celebrity in high school. This buddy's fame comes from repeating it five times.
I passed the ordinary two lines for the first time, so I chose to repeat; In the second year, I passed the key undergraduate line, but I didn't report well, so I chose to repeat; The third and fourth time I passed the key line and was admitted to a good school, but I was transferred to an unpopular major and chose to repeat; Finally, I repeated my studies for the fifth time and was admitted to my school for the second time (the name will not be mentioned).
The second, third and fourth repetition is largely due to the hint of the class teacher in senior three; When he repeated his studies for the fifth time, his deskmate graduated from high school and undergraduate course, and he returned to high school to become his teacher, which suddenly stimulated this buddy.
I feel that for this buddy, repeating the college entrance examination many times is like clamping a doll. Almost every time, the more unwilling, the more I want to play.
In my opinion, it is meaningless to discuss whether it is worthwhile for this classmate to repeat the college entrance examination five times and be admitted to the university. After all, this is people's own choice. We haven't experienced it, so we don't know the bitterness, hardship, helplessness and warmth.
But if I were his former class teacher today, I would probably urge him to go to a better World War II school when he lost in World War I, but when he lost in World War II, I would encourage him not to keep going dark, because youth is too beautiful, but too short; Of course, going to a prestigious school is better, but going to a prestigious school is by no means the only choice for growth.
I think: if he didn't choose to repeat five years at first, but took an undergraduate course in the first or second year of the college entrance examination, and then worked hard to repeat it, four years later, he might have been a graduate student in a prestigious school. But the cruelty of reality lies in: in this world, there is nothing if, and he chooses to repeat; Four years later, he is no longer a graduate student, but an older undergraduate who has just stepped into the university campus.
I'm against repeating my studies many times in order to get into a good university. The reason is that life is a long way to go, and it's Xiu Yuan. If we young people turn back repeatedly on a certain journey, even if we run, we will still stand still in the long river of life.
Second,
Students often ask me: "is it necessary for graduate students who are not famous schools to study?" Is it necessary for part-time graduate students to study? "
I said: "It is not a perfect opportunity, but also an opportunity; If there is an opportunity for change, we must seize the opportunity for change. "
Of course, anyone should remember: if you choose, you won't regret it, just as we don't have to regret our life at the age of 50 or our love at the age of 30 18. At every stage of life, there are puzzles that are hard to get rid of. As long as you have made due efforts, there is nothing to regret.
Don't dwell on the past, just fight for the rest of your life. You have time to regret, so try to create new possibilities for today and the future.