"I have been with him for three months. I brushed my circle of friends at noon today and saw a love photo of him and his girlfriend Xuan Xiuen. "
This is the personal experience of my colleague Jiao Jie (a pseudonym). As her colleague, my teeth itch with anger. She is angry not because her male god chose a rival in love, but because Jiao Jie is really stupid, really stupid.
She is the kind of person who is mean to herself and generous to others. I bought a ticket to go to the movies in advance, and I was reluctant to buy clothes or give him a brand-name bag. I carefully prepared a love lunch for the male god. I refused to pick her up for fear of disturbing others and took a taxi to go on a date myself. Do you think she's stupid?
It's not that the man doesn't want to pay, but that Jiao Jie doesn't give each other a chance. Over time, the man will think that she is easy to coax, that she has a low sense of value and chooses a woman who is more difficult to conquer. It's a pity that Jiao Jie still doesn't understand.
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Three months is nothing. Selena, who has given her seven years of youth, just like the lyrics say, "I gave you all these years of youth in exchange for a thank you for your fulfillment."
On an unremarkable Saturday night, Bieber announced his engagement to his girlfriend Haley, while the "Jasailian" party shouted that it was a pity that Justin Bieber's century love marathon finally came to an end.
Bieber and childhood sweetheart Selena 20 1 1 meet. Bieber, 16, fell in love with Selena at first sight, and Selena also had a crush on Bieber. Selena danced for Bieber in ABC's New Year special. In the long run, Bieber, a young genius, and Selena, an American sweetheart, officially kicked off the "dog abuse". Whether it is daily shopping or attending activities, both of them are clasped with their fingers.
But it didn't last long. In 20 12, Bieber, who was in adolescence, was sent to ask for Victoria's secret contact information of Nenmo. Selena couldn't stand her boyfriend's constant gossip and broke up with him for the first time.
Since then, Bieber and Selena have been on and off for "800 rounds" and have been dubbed "unforgettable in North America" by netizens. Almost every year Selena publicly announces that she will never get back together with Bieber, but soon she will forgive Bieber for coming back to him.
Until 20 14, Bieber and others' ambiguous messages touched Selena's bottom line, and they entered a three-year cooling-off period. During this period, the relationship between Bieber and his fiancee Haley Baldwin gradually warmed up.
2065438+In February 2008, Selena made up with Bieber again and attended her family's wedding together, but they broke up again soon. In the same year, Bieber dated Li Hai and soon announced the wedding news. The bride is not selena.
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What is the difference between you and your rival in love? Is it a face? Is it a figure?
Neither.
Silly woman can't bear to buy him clothes and designer bags.
A silly woman carefully prepared a love lunch.
A silly woman refused to pick her up and took a taxi to go on a date.
A silly woman, infinitely tolerant of his ambiguity.
A silly woman relented after asking several times.
Infinite effort and compromise make you in a very low position in your relationship. The gap between you and your rival in love is not your face or your figure, but your sense of high value.
Therefore, this time I specially invited the emotional counselor Pinellia to develop a practical love guide "Love Skills-Take You to Experience the Happiness of Elva Hsiao" for Huntress.
Zhao Ziwei
Master of Psychology, University of London, UK
National certified box therapist
Senior emotional counselor
be adept in
Emotional problems in love, divorce, dating, falling in love, regaining charm and redemption.
Consultation news
In the face of love and being loved, may you have more courage, faith and strength.
Curriculum highlights
? Systematic and comprehensive: from the first meeting to entering the marriage hall, this course will help you clear the mines step by step, and systematically and comprehensively involve the problems you will encounter in marriage and love.
? Efficient and practical: this course combines theory with practice, extracts many years of practical experience, and refines efficient and practical methods to help you "hunt" your favorite male god.
? Easy to learn and understand: turn difficult professional psychological terms into easy-to-understand language, and help the fairies grow up quickly with case explanations.
? Flexible learning: this course adopts audio format. Whether you are on the way home by car or cooking a delicious kitchen, you can learn flexibly and make scientific use of debris time.
Curriculum harvest
*? Improve the sense of value, and let men be dead set on you.
*? Understand the secrets of men's subconscious from a psychological point of view
*? Uncover the secret of love preservation and harvest high-level love.
*? Know how to make your boyfriend take the initiative to do housework.
*? Tearing green tea by hand is like tearing cabbage by hand.
*? Judge whether the other person is the ideal marriage partner.
Audible crowd
1. Beautiful girl with little love experience
Huntress has a goal, but he doesn't know how to start.
3. Superwoman whose boyfriend doesn't like to do housework
4. The little fairy who pursues stable love
5. Women angered by green tea
6. The bride-to-be lingers at the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau.