Although there are different opinions about him, what is certain is that he has changed from a man to a man? Girls? Liu Ting, feel more happy and free. Her mental journey can be found in her autobiography "My Beauty" published after her gender change.
(Liu Ting's new book "My Beauty" was released)
0 1 From a poor family, I had to carry my mother to school in order to take care of her.
Liu Ting, formerly known as Liu Ting, 1986, was born in Zhejiang. When Liu Ting 13 years old, his mother unfortunately suffered from uremia. In order to treat the disease, she spent all her savings at home. Later, my father ran away from home because of this incident and never heard from him again.
Since then, Liu Ting has become the pillar of the family, and the only support for her mother. In order to take care of his mother, he went to school and took her to treat diseases.
In 2005, Liu Ting was admitted to the College of Landscape Art of Zhejiang A&F University with excellent results. Worried that her mother was left unattended, Liu Ting took her with him, rented a cheap hut near the school and took care of her while studying.
On weekdays, besides attending classes on time every day, Liu Ting spends most of her time with her mother after class. In addition to washing clothes and mopping the floor every day, I have to carry my mother to see a doctor from time to time.
He often eats in the canteen because he has no money. He always eats half and keeps half to take back to his mother.
Because his mother has uremia, the food she brought back can't be eaten directly, and he needs to work hard again to transport the food out? Secondary processing? In this way, the salt in the meal is diluted before it is sent to mother.
Later, he this? Back to school? After his glorious deeds were exposed by the media, he touched countless people and was selected as? Person of the year? 、? Filial piety of the national moral model, dear old model? Wait for the title.
After that, it was because of the assistance of caring people in society that his mother successfully completed the kidney transplant operation.
02 since childhood? Transsexualization? Give parents a headache.
Liu Ting is the only child in the family. Her personality has been compared since she was born. Is that weird? Although he is a man, he has the character and temperament of a girl.
Such as: handsome since childhood, like a girl; Like dolls, like looking in the mirror, like wearing girls' clothes; I usually steal my mother's skirt from time to time. I like to wear lipstick and scarf. In a word, he basically likes to do what girls like to do. What the boy did has nothing to do with him.
Because she thought she was a girl when she was young, Liu Ting didn't like running the men's room even though she was a man. At school, in order to avoid the embarrassment of going to the toilet, he often refrains from drinking water. For this reason, it is often laughed at by male students.
? Are you a man or a woman?
When I was older, my parents began to notice Liu Ting? Is that weird? And forced him to change in the direction of the boy. If you ask him to cut his hair short, ask him to act like a boy; He is forbidden to wear feminine clothes, and he is also forbidden to wear feminine clothes.
However, although he ended up with short hair, he also wore boys' clothes and was even asked to tie a bow tie. In short, although everything outside is dressed like a boy, it still hasn't changed his habits. Her inner appearance, words and deeds are very similar to a girl's smile. If she smiles, she will cover her mouth, speak softly and even raise her orchid finger. 、
For this reason, I almost didn't make my parents angry.
03 in order to achieve? Women's dreams? Do sex-change surgery
After going to college, Liu Ting's self-awareness became stronger and stronger, especially when his mother was ill and his father was ill. Abandon? After the mother and son left home, he was disheartened by men. He said to his mother in despair:
Why are men so unreliable? ? Mom, I want to be a woman! ?
The mother knew that her son was eccentric, but she never thought that her son would have such subversive thoughts. As a traditional Chinese mother, her heart is tangled with pain. She wants to help her son, change her inherent way of thinking and try to understand him as much as possible.
As the only son of his mother, Liu Ting also tried to be a real man. He forced himself to associate with girls, mix with boys and learn how to eat, walk, talk and even drink. However, although all methods have been exhausted, they have not worked.
The soul trapped in the body has never been liberated, pointing and pointing, and all kinds of criticisms are always in the ear. Liu Ting felt very painful. While others are worrying about money, appearance and education, he is worrying about himself? Gender? And worry. To this end, sometimes he thinks of death and is completely relieved.
However, thinking of his sick mother, no one took care of him, he could only secretly wipe his tears, and he was sad alone, so he could only submit to humiliation.
The mother was afraid of her son's suicide and began to learn to accept her son with a more tolerant attitude. Seeing my son often makes me feel very painful. I began to change my mind slowly, encouraging my son to be himself and supporting him? Woman? .
Finally, with the support and encouragement of his mother and the guidance of a psychologist, Liu Ting decided to liberate himself and realize himself through surgery? Rebirth? .
From 14 to 10, Liu Ting had his first operation in a hospital in Guangzhou. After half a year, I experienced many operations, large and small, and finally realized my dream of being a woman.
She changed her name after the operation? Liu Ting? , suggesting a new woman? Born? .
After that, she purposefully participated in various female body, etiquette and other training; No longer take into account the secular vision, and took a mother-daughter photo with my mother; I started writing books, even took part in beauty contests, and even told my mother that I would adopt a child if I could.
Now, she has become a beauty in people's eyes and has become more beautiful. The friend exclaimed? Become a real girl?
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