H and I are high school roommates. I don't know how depressing my life would be without her. I have been used to being alone since I was a child. Even though there are many playmates around me, I have never been so excited. In my memory, my childhood has always been just a bystander.
H and I have the same experience in some ways. For example, we have lived in the same street since childhood and attended almost all kindergartens in that street. Because of my parents' work, we even played in similar places, but miraculously, we never met. It seems that we were destined to meet in the future from the beginning. When I was in primary school, H and I both moved, but at this time we became neighbors, less than ten meters apart. I don't know if it's my own deliberate neglect or if God always lets us miss each other. In the five years I lived in that place, I never noticed the existence of such a person. Even we don't know how many times we passed by, and we don't know how many times we stood at the window of the room. The figure from far and near was unconsciously immersed in its own world and deliberately ignored it.
After experiencing a life that was too depressing and gloomy for me in junior high school, I finally left home and lived in a boarding high school. At that time, I probably didn't know how much impact such a choice would have on my later life. I remember when I walked into the long-awaited school dormitory on the first day of school, I didn't know if it was the first time we met. I watched H and my mother chatting enthusiastically. I didn't even know why they met at that time. It's just that my mother's words finally brought us together: You and H should take care of each other from now on. ? I don't know why such sentences later evolved into so many. together
Life in high school is always too boring, and a month's holiday is what we look forward to most every month. I remember every month's holiday when I was a freshman. Because her family moved to Shanghai, H always lived with her relatives, so she was less constrained, so we often went out together? Did you have fun? And completely ignoring the respect and teaching of parents and teachers, we are indispensable in Internet cafes, but more often, we prefer to sit down with a few bars of wine and then vent our youth in a place where there is nowhere to vent. I remember one time H went crazy and said he wanted to drink Erguotou. We really went to the nearby supermarket to get a bottle. As a result, H took the first sip and threw up on the main road. Until now, I still miss the days when we drank together, whether we were paralyzed by alcohol or not.
When I was a sophomore, I chose liberal arts, while H accidentally studied science. This is our difference. I am always too emotional, and H never analyzes everything from a rational point of view, even life and feelings, but at that time we didn't know that our life would change so much in the days to come. In the next high school life, I had little contact with H. Even in a school or even in a dormitory, we had little chance to meet each other. Sometimes even if we happen to meet, we don't necessarily say hello. Once, my roommate and I met H and her friends in the dormitory. We just looked at each other and passed by. She asked me strangely: Isn't that XXX? Why didn't you say hello? Because there is no need, we all see each other, which is enough. ? This is my answer, because it is enough to know that the other person is in the other person's eyes. Just like now, even if we are separated, we still know that there is a place for each other in each other's hearts. I think this is what I believe in friendship. I don't need to meet every day, just miss it occasionally. H, I know you will know that I have been looking forward to our meeting, and I also know that I have been thinking about you. Actually, I've been thinking about you.
After I went to college, this life became a part of my good memories. I left home alone and started my strange life in a strange city. I left home, my friends and everything I knew. I found that I began to miss everything I had completely ignored before, and H didn't continue his studies unexpectedly. She chose to start her new life in another strange city. So I often chat with H on the Internet. Because of the distance, we seldom call. Internet has become the only tool for us to chat. However, I don't know how H's life will change during my absence. I can't remember the first time she told me that she wanted to die. It's just that we'll talk for a long time about how to die without being too painful. In fact, knowing that it is impossible, there are too many things that we can't put down and give up, so such a topic always ends without an answer.
After ending the relationship that has been entangled for too long, H found someone who she said would be really good to her, but this time we all made the wrong bet and that person finally let go. I don't know what to say when I heard H say that she broke up with that man in order not to appear too abrupt at this moment. So I can only say? This is fate. ? After listening to my words, H was silent for a long time, until I thought she was offline and wouldn't talk any more, but suddenly she sent a message saying? I don't want to get married in the future I want to open a flower shop. ? I said? Well, I'm not getting married either. I will open a bookstore next door to you and we will live together. ? We talked a lot afterwards. When I was about to fall asleep, I was shocked to see a message from H.? If I come over, you can pick me up in Wuhan for half a day, and then I'll call quickly? Of course, I fly everywhere. Well, I'll come on May Day. I want to hide. ? H's words made me feel trance for a moment. H has always been the one who is in an absolute strong position in love. It seems that H is always too easy to get hurt in love since he was injured in his last love. She is always a stranger to me, but it always makes me feel bad. I wonder if it will be used on H one day. Luo said that I am too insecure and always unwilling to trust others. Perhaps because of my experience or personality, I am always a little behind others. I'm used to seeing people and things from an objective perspective, except the people I think. Except my family and L, who has been good friends since childhood, I didn't know H would occupy such a heavy position in my life. I finally believe that friends actually depend on fate. H and I don't know what will happen in the future, but at least I know that we are the most important friends in each other's lives.
Blood without affection is soluble in water, and love is inseparable. Our friendship is like the warm sunshine in winter, illuminating each other's lives. Thank you, H, for appearing in my life, becoming my friend and making me believe in you.
An article on dormitory friendship
Back in 2006, we went through the high school years that we have been paying attention to. In the cool autumn, we met in the dormitory of Jiuhu 13- 18, Building 9, Heyuan, Zhengzhou University. At first, we were together with that strangeness. I have forgotten the scene when I introduced myself, but my impression of every member is still there. What impressed me the most was Jianbo. He was alone when I reported to the dormitory, which was not the reason that impressed me the most. That's because I saw his hands covered with bandages. At that time, I imagined that if he was bandaged, it would be much more fun than the mummy in the Egyptian pyramid, because he was fat, hehe. That was the first time I saw someone help me tie a bandage in real life. I've only seen them on TV before, so he was the most impressed, and I'm afraid he won't forget them in the future. In addition, there is an anthology. When I entered the dormitory, he was not there, and his clothes and shoes were all there. I looked at them. I thought he must be tall and his family conditions must be right. I felt a sense of inferiority and envy at that moment, but when he appeared in front of me, my heart was relieved, which was almost what I expected. Then the first time I saw him, my first impression was that he was too thin. He is the tallest in our dormitory, and he is more handsome. So, I have a good impression. People in the morning look energetic, their clothes are in harmony with their bodies, and there is an indescribable beauty. Finally, Liu Peng, to be honest, I'm not very impressed. Now I don't remember him, because he is silent and more introverted than me. Don't be angry after watching Dapeng, I'll tell you the truth. ) Later, with the beginning and end of military training, our college life officially began.
Freshman life is very novel, full of freshness and excitement. That unique feeling can only be realized at that time, and now the memories are beyond description. I think the worst thing about the dormitory is that everyone in our dormitory has failed, perhaps it is to vent their dissatisfaction with the university or to challenge their limits. It all failed anyway. I don't know what other brothers in the dormitory think, and I don't think it's shameful, because as long as you work hard, you may be excellent. We all passed the college entrance examination, and now we are still afraid of this exam. And with the passage of time, I have a deeper understanding of my dormitory brothers. When I was a freshman, I was crazy together, happy together and sighed together, so the memories at that moment were still happy. We just want to have and enjoy, we don't care about the result, just like a proverb says, we never care about what we have. After the baptism of our freshman year, we came to school after the summer vacation. Obviously, we can feel the changes of our dormitory brothers, and we have learned to grow up in time. Although there will be some confusion that will temporarily disorientate us, we are still strong when we are frustrated, just like a smile on our face on a rainy day, because our hearts are full of sunshine of love. Now that the winter vacation is coming to an end, I am looking forward to seeing my dormitory brothers. Although I haven't left for two and a half years, I want to write something as a souvenir.
Let's talk about your advantages and disadvantages in my heart first. Don't blame me for meddling. I like to analyze others, especially those close to me, just like those who take pain as their pleasure, although happiness is based on the pain of others. In my opinion, the brothers in the dormitory can be divided into two categories. One group is Chen Jianbo and Laobai, and the other group is Dapeng Shenglong and me. The people in front are more extroverted, and doing things and having relationships with people are relative. We are a little more introverted here. Compared with them, dealing with people is a little less fun. I often say this to them. They are only complementary. There is no difference between extroversion and extroversion in our dormitory. We are all open-minded.
I feel that Chen Shao has learned something I can't say (I rely on my feelings, that is, my personal thoughts), but Chen is a talented person in our dormitory, with strong language organization ability, good articles and good calligraphy.
In my eyes, Lao Bai is too extroverted, exaggerating everything, a little indifferent to other people's feelings and often embarrassing others. But this is a long-term formation, which can also be said to be a shortcoming or an advantage. However, the old white man is very kind and loyal, and he helps his friends in times of crisis and has more experience in handling things, which is exactly what modern society needs.
Dapeng gives me the feeling that I am too introverted and often have no self-confidence. However, I don't think introversion is a disadvantage. Dapeng has a deep mind, so he should always dig into it. He has a clear understanding of his external things and is the most self-controlled person in our dormitory. He is more rational and organized in his work.
I feel that the holy dragon is playing a role, hiding myself deeply and being afraid of being hurt, perhaps because you have been hurt. I feel from your article that you are far from your real life. Perhaps this is the contradiction between people, but Shenglong is smart. I think you are the smartest in our dormitory, and you are also very kind to your friends, so you have a good relationship with the opposite sex.
Jianbo gives me the feeling that he is too sophisticated, too mature and too smart, which is not a shortcoming. If people want to live a good life and realize their ideals, they must be immature and have no calculation. This is the survival law of society. It's just that Jianbo is one step ahead of us, and sooner or later we will become like you. But Jianbo is loyal, kind to his friends and sophisticated in handling things. I believe he will make great achievements in the future.
I believe our life will be extraordinary. Don't forget that we are wolves!
Articles about dormitory friendship Our dormitory
Our dormitory is a mixed dormitory with six people in one room. From a distance, they come from four different provinces, three different grades and belong to two different majors: insurance and marketing. Six people in the dormitory, personality characteristics? Different hobbies? Each has his own strengths. I think the only similarity is that when they first entered the university, they were full of beautiful dreams about their university life.
Sophomore students are Xiao Jiang and Xiao Shi. Let's start with Xiao Jiang. Although he is from northern Anhui, he is the darkest in our dormitory. Every time he looks in the mirror, he never forgets to say:? Oh, dear (his mantra), why am I so black? ! ? Xiao Jiang is a typical liberal arts student with profound knowledge and outstanding eloquence. Although far from being familiar with astronomy and geography, it is more than enough to talk about Kan Kan in front of us ignorant people. But it is a pity that he seldom applies his talents to real life, and only stays in oral kung fu. So someone in the dormitory commented that he was a' theorist'. Xiao Jiang's view of love is somewhat conservative, and he rarely hears the anecdote about him and a girl. He has been fascinated by calligraphy and playing the flute recently. Both of them have made great progress and look enviable. Haha, it can be used to attract the attention of the opposite sex. When you see Xiao Jiang, you will also deeply understand the severe situation of water shortage in the north. Because once he washed his own feet with mine! Moreover, he told me that this is a normal thing in his hometown. When I was in high school, everyone in the dormitory used to wash their feet with water in buckets! Oh, dear, I can't imagine living in their hometown for a while. I can't help but be glad that I was born in a province rich in water resources. Besides, Xiaoshi, who was admitted to college in high school for two years, was also tortured by the college entrance examination. He seems to be the most mature in our dormitory, so he is easy to get along with. Xiaoshi is tall, likes playing basketball, and is also a school athlete. In the sports meeting last semester, he won three medals alone, which caused a strong response. Hanging three medals around your neck like that is really' heroic and spirited'. People can't wait to grab his medal and hang it around their necks. Although no one believes it, it's okay to indulge in it, hehe. Xiaoshi got along well in the school guard, became an instructor, and led a group of minions to "tell what to do" in Jiang campus. Xiaoshi's love world seems to be somewhat unsatisfactory and frustrated repeatedly. Well, neither of us is happy-I really want to seize the opportunity to sing a single love song with this buddy when I grow old.
Is there Xiaoling in junior year? Fu Xiao and I. Xiaoling is the youngest in our dormitory, but she has the biggest temper. I have seen him fight more than four times in the past two years, and I tried to stop him every time. Nevertheless, he is very friendly. Once someone is bullied in our dormitory, he can't wait to ask who bullied us. He is very eager to beat these people up. Ah, in his words, this is called? Hot blood? But I wonder if he watched too many young and dangerous people when he was a child. Xiaoling doesn't like studying, and she is the most failed one in our dormitory. However, he is the strongest in our dormitory. He can repair mobile phones, make his own bouquets and be good at computers. He also has his own Taobao shop and his own small business during his college years. Although Xiaoling seems to play around at ordinary times, she is the only one in our dormitory who has always had a girlfriend. Hehe, I think it's a bit exaggerated to use this idiom to describe him. To say who is the best in our dormitory, I will not hesitate to say Fu Xiao. He has many auras. The director of the Propaganda Department of the Academy, the president of the Language and Art Association, and the Shuangwei Team Committee make people seem to have unlimited ability and energy. Not long ago, he ushered in his own love. Hehe, all shall be well, jack shall have Jill, which is a great blessing in life. Here, brother, I say my blessing! Fu Xiao has practiced calligraphy since he was a child, and now his calligraphy is one of the best in the river. Fu Xiao is also good at playing chess, comparable to me. Play a few games when you have time to win or lose each other. Fu Xiao's expressive ability is so strong that he can hardly shut up once he meets a topic of interest. He is persistent in what he yearns for and has the spirit of not giving up until he reaches his goal. Some people say that his personality is too ostentatious? Too utilitarian. But I don't see anything wrong with it. Isn't the society now in need of college students with passion like him? Besides, if a person has no desire or utility, it is difficult to achieve great things!
The senior student's name is Mix, and he is described by an idiom, that is, physically disabled and determined. He is the man of the hour in the school. He has published many articles in the school newspaper, and his deeds are often regarded as a model by the school newspaper. He walks with a limp. At first glance, he thought he was a very pessimistic person. But on the contrary, is it for your own life? Whether in love or in the future, he is very positive and optimistic. He dares to say it to the person he likes in front of everyone. I love you! ? ; Since he was a child, he has been committed to the cause of Chinese medicine, and he also believes that he will achieve something in this industry; He is also deeply loved by school leaders. Joe, Dad, Grandpa Liao? Is his good friend, in his words, this is called understanding? Politics? . Shameless, think of yourself as a healthy person. If you are confident and optimistic, you are far behind him. In fact, I often think that a person's disability is not terrible, but a broken heart is terrible!
Six people in the dormitory lived together unconsciously for two years. There were laughter, arguments and even fights. Boys, it is inevitable that they are a little soft-hearted. But after disagreement, it is a handshake immediately. It is said that gathering is fate. I think it is a kind of fate that six people in our dormitory, from all corners of the country, gather in the same dormitory in Jiang Campus. Although we can't make friends in Taoyuan, we have no worries and * * *, but only the truest brotherhood. Life can't be turbulent everywhere, most of the time it's just calm. Just like a short-term love affair, an ordinary love affair will be ushered in, and its true meaning will be realized in the daily necessities sauce vinegar tea. May the friendship between the brothers in the dormitory stand the scrutiny of time, and the longer Mika!