One kind of person is a good person and the other is a bad person. So what is a bad guy? It's the strangers who take the children away with candy, and it's grandma bear who eats the children's fingers in grandma bear's story. That was the definition at that time.
So what is a good man? Not like the bad guys. He is kind, virtuous and harmless to people.
Such a superficial definition seems ridiculous to me now, but I must admit that this statement is not unreasonable.
The real thinking is before going to bed. Lying in bed, thinking silently, what is good and what is bad?
Then somehow, I had an idea. Good corresponds to evil, light to darkness, and life to death. It seems to be inspired by primary school math textbooks. I can't remember the specific sentence, but I still remember the sentence "interdependence"
In mathematics, some formulas are interdependent. So does it mean that we think the opposite things are interdependent?
Yes, my answer is "yes". There is light and darkness in this world. But there is no absolute light and there is no absolute darkness. Light contains darkness, and darkness also contains light. They are interdependent.
Good people and bad people are just like light and darkness. No one is absolutely good, and no one is born bad. Bad people are just good people who have gone bad.
An American psychologist said that people are boastful animals. They say more than they realize, averaging at least 25 lies every day. Feldman, a social psychologist at the University of Massachusetts, said, "If you ask ordinary people if they lie, they usually answer,' No, I never talk big.' Or "just out of kindness." But if one day you look at your behavior carefully, you will find that the truth is another matter. "
Are liars bad people? Not necessarily. Is there anyone who can't lie all his life? When asked this question, I can only laugh "hehe".
I used to think I was a good man. There are some narcissists. However, I think many people will think so. They will think that they have never done anything terrible and have always been good people. Although they have some shortcomings occasionally, they are good people on the whole.
Today, I can say that I am not a good person. The definition of good and bad is wrong. This is our misunderstanding. Like a long cotton thread, one end is good and the other is bad. The person who is neither good nor bad lives between good and bad.
Some people are fifty-one percent good and forty-nine percent bad; And some people are 49% good and 51% bad. Never ask me what kind of person I am. I can only say that I don't know.
Do you know yourself? Do you know who you are?
Perhaps, you can answer after thinking about it, but is your answer right? Is your answer a comment from someone else? If yes, then this answer is not qualified. Think for yourself, you should ask yourself, is this me?
Perhaps, you will not be able to answer this question. This is a good phenomenon. Because you are not influenced by others' one-sided evaluation, it also shows that you are beginning to think about what kind of person you are.
If you don't even know who you really are, others' comments will be pale.
Someone must question whether they have multiple personality disorders.
Multiple personality disorder means that a person has two or more completely different personalities at the same time. The behavioral differences of these patients can not be explained by the different behaviors of ordinary people in different occasions and roles. It seems that they are two completely different people, and each personality has its own name, memory, characteristics and behavior. Usually, the original personality does not know the existence of another personality, while the new personality has a considerable understanding of the original personality. The characteristics of the new personality are usually quite different from those of the original personality. For example, the original personality is shy and depressed, and the new personality may be open and extroverted.
We may show different personalities in front of different people or different situations, but this is not multiple personality disorder.
The reason why I have such doubts and performances is because my mind has received some hints.
Some people may think that you are informal and chic. When your subconscious receives this hint, it will always play such a person in the future. Some people may think you are delicate and sensitive, and when your fragile subconscious receives this "label", it will play such a delicate and sensitive person in the future.
However, what is the nature of oneself is still unknown.
When someone comments that I am an honest and good person. I just laughed, laughing at myself. When several people commented on me like this, I joked that the crime of my living to this day is enough for me to write a confession.
I can tell the secret of my guilt, but I still can't tell what my sin is. Will be afraid, will be afraid. When your secret is exposed, there is a panic of streaking in the busiest pedestrian street.
So I come to a conclusion that good and bad belong to two extremes, and most of them are just the same product of good and bad.
Someone will definitely refute this view. Because there is approval, there is naturally opposition. It depends on the number of people.
There is no good or bad standard.
I hope that when my mind is calm, I can ask myself well.
"Who am I?"
"What kind of person am I?"
"What do I want?"