If self-satisfaction has been achieved by showing off in different backgrounds for a long time, his self-concept may be distorted. He is looking for a typical, narcissistic personality.
Narcissistic personality characteristics:
They always want praise and attention from others, and always complain that others don't worship them enough. They think that they are a combination of beauty and talent and deserve special attention and preferential treatment, even if they have nothing to show off, they don't deserve any honor.
I always feel different. Only the same excellent people are qualified to associate with me. They always choose "top" people and well-known institutions to serve themselves. For example, doctors, lawyers and fitness instructors who serve them should be the best, and impose the value of experts on themselves to show their superiority. And these behaviors also make them look powerful.
Only consider themselves, they always start with the word "I" in conversation, and they prefer to use the first person than the average person. They like to discuss their concerns with others and are impatient with others' concerns. I didn't even realize that I had hurt others. For example, they will enthusiastically publicize their achievements in front of students who failed the exam, praise their partners in front of lovelorn people, and even praise their good posture in front of sick people.
Although he looks confident, he still needs praise and attention from others. A truly confident person doesn't need praise from others. They are also very sensitive, and they will be angry if they are not respected and given priority by others.
If people around you succeed, they will be vilified and belittled in public and think that others are not worthy, and they are the best. Of course, some people will hide their jealousy because of their face.
This student likes to show off his family background and connections, because most of his classmates' families don't have this advantage, so he can attract others' attention and gain a sense of superiority. At this time, he may not realize what others think of him. If you show disdain for him, he may go crazy.
Because I don't have the conditions and connections, I can only show off what I already have at home to get the attention of others.
Everyone has some vanity.
Some people say that now is the era of "fighting dad".
Having a good family background can really make you suffer less. Even if you don't succeed in your struggle, there will be a post-reinforcement.
It's always good to let others look up, even with the help of others, to make things easier.
Good family background and contacts are a kind of resource, no matter who owns it, you can use it yourself.
Let others feel that something is wrong, you can ask him for help.
In fact, this has also become a way to accumulate new contacts.
It's always easier to trade resources for resources.
I have no confidence in myself, and I can only rely on my family connections and background to support my confidence.
People who like to show off their family background and connections. Often their ability level is much worse than that.
You can only rely on the world laid by others to make your confidence burst.
So,
Suggest such a person:
It is good to have resources, even at home.
But on this basis, I still increase my contacts and wealth background.
Learn more knowledge.
Good luck!
Between school and friends, students show off their family background and relationships. Their inner existence is to increase their own value and sense of existence. In school, they generally gain everyone's recognition or satisfy their vanity through their academic performance. If the student begins to show off his family background and contacts, he can only say that he feels that his sense of existence among his classmates is not high, and he needs to show off to improve his sense of existence and satisfy his vanity.