But in fact, such appalling incidents as the abduction of female students from Peking University by Pua and the abduction of female college students to remote mountainous areas are endless.
Once targeted by the bad guys, female college students are almost unable to refute, but they can only become victims, and female college students have always been a high-risk group in China. Why do these bad guys like to choose female college students?
In fact, on the whole, girls themselves are weak, and the bad guys who choose women as their targets are more likely to succeed.
* * * Strong emotional ability
As we all know, men are rational creatures, while women are emotional animals, which are easily influenced by the environment and provide good opportunities for bad criminals.
As long as we find the right motivation, make use of women's psychological characteristics and make up a story that can drive emotions casually, women will be easily fooled.
Generally speaking, women have strong emotional ability and know how to think from the perspective of others. Therefore, when the same thing happens between men and women, women are more active than men.
Although female college students have a certain ability to distinguish right from wrong, they spend most of their time in school in real life and have little experience of really getting into society. When someone gives them something different from the campus, they are easily hooked.
We have always had a stereotype about academic qualifications, thinking that people with high academic qualifications must know how to deal with scams, but this is not the case.
With the development of economy, the means of cheating are also changing. The deception we used to be familiar with has long since become a thing of the past, and this special group of scammers is also looking for better ways to attract people to be fooled.
People who have been groping in society for many years have also grown up in a social environment where they are constantly cheated. Even if there are new scams, their vigilance will be stronger than that of female college students on campus.
Now female college students are well protected. Since childhood, I have been pampered at home and have no worries about food and clothing. The wind and rain outside are blocked by parents, and only the best side of life can be seen.
On campus, there are kind classmates and elders-like teachers. They have lived in it for a long time and rarely see the vicious side of society.
This is the reason why female college students are easily deceived. Their direct experience is too little, and they lack relevant knowledge education to supplement their indirect experience, so they can't cope with the scam.
Mu Qiang psychology
In addition, it is precisely because they have received higher education and seen a higher realm that they are more likely to fall into a strong psychological trap.
Everyone will envy and envy those who are better than themselves, because they can't reach that level at present, and the height of the other person can reflect their current needs, which leads to our strong worship psychology.
This is why many people like idolization, because idols can carry the dreams of ordinary people and go forward with dreams that cannot be realized in real life.
Under the influence of wood-strong psychology, we will magnify each other's advantages and have blind worship, so it is particularly easy to become the object of emotional Pua.
At first, those men who implement Pua will pretend to be girls' favorite objects, knowledgeable, intelligent and responsible, which will leave a good first impression on girls, and then they will begin to have a halo effect and fantasize about the light on this man.
With the constant temptation step by step, girls began to be unable to extricate themselves, completely immersed in desire, and began to believe everything men said.
The biggest problem caused by wood-strong psychology is inferiority. When we face a group better than ourselves, inferiority will arise spontaneously, which also gives the other party the opportunity to control the individual.
Once the other person sees through this inferiority complex, he will become a tool for running dogs, believe what they say and be led by their nose.
To the onlookers, the idea promoted by MLM organization is incredible, but it can attract countless people. They just pretend to be a very tall organization, which makes people look forward to and worship blindly, and then automatically join it.
Strong desire can really promote individual progress, but excessive strong desire will only lead to self-loss and become others' "licking dogs".
If you want to reduce the possibility of being cheated, you must correct your mentality, realize your own advantages, don't easily fall into inferiority, and have a correct understanding of others and don't blindly worship.