How did I spend these years? I was confused when I was a freshman. What should I be in the future? Never be satisfied with the ordinary, from now on! Give you my summary! I hope you can become the outstanding person you want to be in the new environment.
What will I spend when I go to college again?
1. Make career planning early.
Many college students, including me, have just entered the university and found that their major is not what they like or what they are good at. They are confused and don't know what to do. Actually, it's time to make a career plan.
Think clearly about what to do in the future, and then use your spare time to learn this knowledge.
Teach a little skill that I personally think is good. If you have nothing to do, open the major recruitment websites and browse the positions of companies you are interested in, and see what skills you need for the position and profile. Then, ah, to learn this direction, it is best to have your own works. The success rate of applying for this position directly after graduation will be higher!
Anyone who says he is confused has no real intention to do things.
2. Be sure to have breakfast.
Because I didn't pay attention in college, I often didn't eat breakfast and got chronic stomach problems. I took a lot of stomach medicine, and then I was insulated from many delicious things (I didn't dare to eat spicy or cold). It's always troublesome to come home from a restaurant with a stomachache.
So no matter where you are, health is always the first. By the way, try to eat in the school cafeteria and eat less takeout! Eat less takeout! Eat less takeout! The important thing is that you can never imagine how dirty the kitchen in the restaurant is.
Please take every meal in college seriously!
3. Fall in love in college.
Why do you suggest a college romance?
First of all, universities are rarely polluted by some social phenomena. In most cases, two people are together because they like each other, which is not very useful. It has nothing to do with the house or the car. In the future, the working circle will become smaller and the scope of communication will be limited. It's really difficult to find a suitable partner.
One of my college classmates said when filming graduation photo: The only regret is that I didn't fall in love in college.
Please try to stay away from the dormitory except sleeping.
In particular, don't order takeout in the dormitory and don't lie in bed during the day. Because the atmosphere in the dormitory is like that, playing games and watching plays, people's will is limited.
It is easy to be assimilated by infection in an environment. Dormitory can be said to be a black hole of time and an abyss of willpower.
5. Insist on going to bed early and getting up early instead of staying up late.
I remember when I was a freshman, there were no teachers and no parents. Play games and watch movies with my roommates every day, and don't go to bed until two or three in the morning.
By the time I was a sophomore, I obviously felt that my physical condition was getting worse and worse, and I was sleepy, listless and degraded in class. If I find out like this, I'm finished.
Something has to change. Later, I found that I had to adjust my schedule for a month. Go to bed at 1 1: 00 at the latest and get up at 6: 00 in the morning.
I have been insisting since the second year of high school, and I can obviously feel that my body and mind are getting better. I don't forget things easily, and I don't feel sleepy. Many people have a misunderstanding. You must go to bed early and get up early. In fact, you have to get up early to go to bed early.
6. Don't be too obsessed with contacts.
In college, you may think it necessary to make all kinds of friends and help each other in the future. This view is correct.
Networking is very important, but if you have no value, you have no good connections. High-quality network is based on value exchange.
So instead of making friends in college, focus on improving yourself, and slowly you will attract like-minded friends.
7. Make full use of school resources.
The value of the tuition you pay is not just to get your college degree.
Libraries are resources, teachers are resources, laboratory equipment is resources, and even tennis courts are resources. As long as you want to learn, you can get more resources at a very low cost. Be sure to use it.
8. resist temptation.
The way to get rid of internet addiction like playing games and brushing Tik Tok is to do something with a sense of accomplishment and reward.
After playing games, people actually don't have much sense of accomplishment, and even spend money, and the return is negative.
You read a book, learn a skill, or understand a truth, which is the reward. Remember, you can't get anything in return for nothing, you need to work hard, and sometimes you even do things against your own desires.
9. Develop the habit of reading.
For ordinary people, there is no family background, no social relationship, no beauty and figure.
Only the mind and thinking can improve the space. And get it through reading.
You must form the habit of reading every day in college. In a few years, your cognitive level and thinking dimension will have a qualitative leap, and the perspective of seeing things will be diversified. This is how the gap arises after graduation.
If you don't know what books are useful to read, you can follow me. After replying to the "required reading list", I will sort out the list of books I think must be read to help you get rid of students' thinking and improve your cognitive level.
10. Don't fail.
"A university is incomplete without failure ..." Like this, people who fail are comforting themselves. Please ignore it. It's really not cool to fail college.