First of all, we must adjust the perspective. The university is dissatisfied, the major is dissatisfied, the dormitory is dissatisfied, and the roommates are dissatisfied. Will my roommate be satisfied if I repeat it? Will the dormitory be satisfied? Realistically, life itself is not ideal, and ups and downs are inevitable. Since you can't change it, change yourself. If the conditions are poor, you can hone your will, improve the dormitory hygiene and coordinate the roommate relationship (these are all to be practiced). You can make some efforts in your studies and work according to your ability when you come back.
Two choices, one is to calm down and adapt slowly, mainly because the new environment is different from what you expected. This should be normal. Unless you pursue your ideal environment, you have to drop out of school and repeat your studies. You should think it over.
You really don't know who will come first tomorrow and the accident. Really, what you lack by dropping out of college may be something you can't make up for in the next ten years. It has nothing to do with money. It has something to do with your youth and your so-called golden age of freedom. Don't drop out of college. What you want most is to attend more classes, listen to professors and enjoy campus life. This is a process and an experience of life. Without college, you really lost one year of college time in Kan Kan.
Depression is divided into severe, moderate and mild. If you are severely depressed, extremely depressed, not interested in anything, and have obvious suicidal tendencies, you must drop out of school for medical treatment at this time. If it is mild, try to see a doctor without affecting your studies. You only need to make regular follow-up visits and adjust your oral medication. Initial treatment and early treatment are very effective. The longer the delay, the more difficult the treatment will be, and the patient will not cooperate well, which will easily develop into a bipolar disorder (alternating episodes of depression and mania). It is difficult to adjust to a good emotional balance at this time.
Depends on the severity. If you have dropped out of school in the late stage of depression, after all, severe depression has a great influence on memory and thinking, and you have no energy to take care of your studies at all, so you can only treat it first.
If you don't have to give up your studies in the early and middle stages, you can control your illness with drugs. Because depression is a disease that can be cured by combining one's own will with scientific treatment, we should learn to consciously suppress the generation of negative thinking, divert one's redundant energy with things in study or life, learn to objectively evaluate and motivate oneself, regain self-confidence and establish good living habits, so as to fundamentally overcome depression.
Depression is difficult to treat because drugs can only be controlled for a short time. Only by restraining negative thinking from the level of consciousness, strengthening positive mentality with good habits, realizing the reality that one's nervous system is very fragile, and not deliberately stimulating and indulging oneself can one get out of depression, which requires lifelong practice.
First of all, we need to know that for people with depression, their sensitivity to the future is very low. When they are depressed, they generally lack interest in the people and things around them. In their world, they can't see their future. Therefore, study is of no value to a depressed person.
Should we give up our studies? This is to think about the problem of depressed patients from the perspective of a normal person. For them, even if they don't want to give up, they don't think their study will be of any help to the future.
Therefore, we can't think about studies and depression in the same framework. After suffering from depression, you should seek the help of professional institutions in time. After getting better, you can consider the academic problems, which is more important, school or illness. I hope everyone must distinguish clearly.
Depressed college students should drop out of school or even give up college. Which is more important, life or education? Never study to death. The road to life is not just going to college. What's more, college students are all over the world now and are worthless. When they graduated, they lost their jobs. They have no choice but to go to a real estate agent to sell a house or to an insurance company. Some people also sell meat, do small business or run takeout. Depression often leads to insomnia, so don't do mental work. From time to time, I heard that some office directors committed suicide by jumping off a building, and some college students committed suicide by jumping off a building, but it is rare for farmers or migrant workers engaged in manual labor. Hungry black Africans may not be so depressed. So I returned to my hometown in the countryside, raising pigs, chickens and ducks, planting vegetables and fruit trees, and having fun. Being close to nature is good for your recovery. I suffered from severe insomnia and headache in college, so I survived. Now that I am old and retired, I often suffer from insomnia and poor sleep, but I have no burden in my heart and resigned myself to fate. Depression is actually a mental illness, a mental illness, and it takes someone to tie the bell to solve it. Give up college and find something you like to do.
Depression does not conflict with college studies, but it depends on whether it is serious. If you have depression, you will stay at home all day, and your family will always be with him, but the pressure will be even greater. At this time, you need to relax, don't think about those unhappy things, and let life return to normal track.
If he likes learning very much, then he will forget those bad things in the process of learning, concentrate on his studies, play with friends at ordinary times, have fun together, and slowly get better. At this time, companionship is also very important. Don't make him feel special.
Generally speaking, you should not give up your studies, mainly depending on the degree of depression. If you can't sleep at night and have no energy during the day, which will affect normal social interaction, you should take a temporary leave of absence for a period of time, adjust yourself, and go to see a doctor to form a good habit of work and rest and keep a good mood, so don't give up your studies at the cold window unless you have to?
It is mainly a matter of mentality. I didn't know how the disease came about until I got depressed. Depression is generally manifested as insomnia, difficulty falling asleep and early awakening. Keep a good attitude, don't pursue perfection in everything, communicate with your classmates more, and the symptoms will be alleviated by adjusting drugs.