1 First of all, we really need to reflect. I am preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, not the postgraduate entrance examination itself, which shows that the situation is not very urgent, so I have to take some time to go back to my hometown to express my condolences at that time, even if the research is finished, or I can wait until the day of burial and go back to school after the funeral. It is really unreasonable not to attend such an important funeral on the grounds of preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. Not only are relatives disgusted, but they should also feel guilty.

Secondly, it's no use crying over spilt milk. We can only do what is in front of us. I didn't attend the funeral because I was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. If the enthusiasm of the postgraduate entrance examination is dampened because of the emotional entanglements afterwards, and the efficiency of the postgraduate entrance examination review is affected, it will really outweigh the benefits. Might as well go straight back to the funeral. So since this is the case, I will stick to it until the postgraduate entrance examination is successful.

3. Take time to go to grandma's grave. You should ask your parents' permission first. Maybe you have asked your parents' permission before you do it. Let your parents explain it to you. After a long time, your relatives will play down the matter. But in my heart, I should feel sorry for grandma, go to the grave, burn paper for grandma, and apologize to her in heaven.