Out of a youthful ivory tower, into a complex ivory tower, but the ivory tower is still ivory tower, they are still homogeneous, there is not much difference.

This is why even after "walking out of society", there is a feeling of no excitement, just a few years more than in school. Some people may say that obviously a lot of changes have taken place, so has the complex social reality.

Therefore, in fact, whether it is a university or a society, in the eyes of some people, there is no concept of "inside and outside the besieged city". Some people don't take exams as exams when they are young, and they don't need to overcome the exam-oriented thinking. If it is not in the tower, the university is not an ivory tower and the society is not a black jungle. It's just that these are really a small number of people.

I have an example that no one else believes.

Many students or social people are studying "The Way of the World" and then tossing about in it. I don't study this very much. In the eyes of many people, I am "incapable of being a man" or even "low emotional intelligence", and I am often evaluated like this everywhere.

But I've come all this way, and frankly, So far, I don't understand or think about any interpersonal relationship, which doesn't prevent me from coming and going freely in this society. Some relationships and opportunities come naturally or even inexplicably, and nothing is more profound and interesting than this. This is the case now, whether it is planned or random, as long as there is a spark, how to collide will do.

What you need to do is to change from campus to society.

The essence of change lies in the change of thinking mode and social cognition.

Because social universities are far more complicated than academic universities!

It is always said that college students are simple-minded. In fact, college students' thoughts are not simple now, but they are not so complicated and diversified.

Is to have a new understanding of social cognition.

Don't blindly believe and follow.

In the social university, no one should do anything for you, and no one will help you because of a good relationship!

This is an eternal hidden rule.

After the school goes to the society, it is not easy to make money after exercise and it is difficult to pay for renting a house. It's hard to make money in society. Society makes it difficult to mix, so it is difficult to make money, it is difficult to make money, and life is hard.