Mother is the most important person for children, but in fact, more and more evidence shows that father plays a vital role in children's growth. For daughters, the role of father is more important. Meg, an American doctor of medicine and an internationally renowned expert on adolescent issues with 20 years of experience in clinical treatment of children? Mick, in the process of investigation, consultation and diagnosis, found a common fact: father is the most important person in his daughter's life, and the strong emotional bond between father and daughter can shape her life and future.

In 2006, Meg Meeker published a book "Strong Father, Strong Daughter", and immediately became a bestseller in the United States. The book comprehensively expounds the importance of a father to his daughter's life, and reveals ten secrets of being a good father, Meg? Mick pointed out that a loving and careful father will have an important influence on daughters of all ages. Let's have a look.

How does a good father shape his daughter's life?

A father can give his daughter the kind of support that only a father can give. A daughter needs a hero in her heart, and she will choose her father as her hero. For a daughter, it is impossible for her to live without a hero to look up to. She needs a hero to guide her to deal with a dangerous society. As a hero, a father can give his daughter two important things: leadership and persistence.

A father can bring two most important assets to his daughter: pragmatism and tempering. Men and women look at problems from different angles, and fathers usually bring pragmatism and solutions into the family. Women like to think and men like to solve problems. The daughter's view of herself comes directly from her father. Her expectation, ambition and judgment of her ability all come from what her father believed, what his father said and did.

He also suggested that toddlers who are closely related to their fathers are better at solving problems, get higher scores in brain development tests, have greater pressure to adapt to learning, have better academic performance and are less withdrawn. In fact, a daughter needs her father's attention and time most, and her daughter needs her father's company most. Meg. Mick said that a good father should be closely connected with his daughter: talking to her, spending time with her and enjoying the time in alone with her. Father and daughter together can make the daughter's life extremely complete and rich, and the daughter can give her father endless rewards.

In addition, he also mentioned that his father's influence on the big girl is as follows:

■ Girls who are favored by their fathers are more confident.

■ Girls who can feel their father's care and have a good relationship with their father are less likely to think of suicide, and the proportion of dissatisfaction, depression, lack of self-confidence, weight imbalance or addiction to * * * is much smaller.

■ Daughters who are closely related to their fathers are more likely to finish their studies.

■ A father's concern can best enhance his daughter's self-confidence.

■ Girls with fathers are more secure, more confident, more likely to be admitted to universities, and less likely to drop out of universities.

■ Fathers make their daughters more competitive, more eager to achieve and more successful.

■76% of teenage girls say that their father can influence them to decide whether to have sex or not.

■ Girls who live with their parents (not just their mothers) rarely have growth or development problems, and even less have learning disabilities, emotional disorders or conduct problems.

■ Girls who only live with their mothers can't control their impulses, or delay their satisfaction, and their consciousness or sense of right and wrong is weaker.

■ If the father participates in the child's daily life, the child will trust him more and seek emotional support from him.

At the end of the book, Meg? Dr. Mick said: One day, when she grows up, you will be different. If you finish your work well, she will choose another person who loves her, who fights for her and who is close to her. But that person can never take your place in her mind, which will be the greatest compliment to a good father.