When his job is stable, then he will choose to talk about a relationship, because falling in love after his job is stable is actually a more responsible attitude towards both sides. Another reason is that some people don't fall in love for four years in college in order to better improve themselves, because what our attitude towards college determines what our college life is like.
Some people don't concentrate on falling in love for four years in college. On the contrary, he will regard the library as his girlfriend. Because young people are always immature, it is better to meet the right one after a long time. This is the beginning of love, not a confused relationship.