That place is more than an hour away from the restaurant, and this long-awaited big meal is definitely not available, so my friend began to hesitate. His friend told him that since you can't arrive for a while, it's not bad for a while, and it's okay when the food comes, so don't worry. Finally, he gave in and waited for the food to come and eat for more than an hour before he was ready to leave to find his cousin. As a result, his cousin said that he had taken a ride back to school and told him not to worry. His cousin hasn't contacted him since. Friends only know that this big meal is hard-won, and if you miss it, you will lose all your money, instead of putting yourself in my cousin's shoes. My cousin was helpless and shivering in the cold wind, waiting eagerly for my cousin to pick him up. Sometimes, emotional thinking will make you selfish and weaken the disadvantages of others. We should use a rational brain to feel the present situation of others, to understand others and to care for others with true feelings, instead of speaking calmly without any action. 2. Learn to face the reality. We live in a social era. We will meet all kinds of people in our life, work and study, and there will be corresponding difficulties and pressures. As a college student, what will you do when you encounter such high-intensity pressure and challenge?
Let me tell you, you must face these pressures and difficulties bravely, and you may face an extremely difficult task; May be to admit that he made a mistake; It is also possible to make a difficult choice between the two. Very painful, really painful. Maybe you'll hide under the covers and cry at midnight. Maybe you will want to give up. Maybe you will shout why I can't live as comfortably as others. But after crying and thinking, you still have to face them and conquer them. Because you are better than others! More mature! I have a friend who felt very inferior when he first went to college. When talking to friends, he lowered his head and dared not look at people. His voice is very low. With such a person, he later entered the student union, from running errands to delivering things, sweeping the floor and mopping the floor, to independently holding the whole school performance and becoming the president of the student union. His experience is that as long as you give it to him, you will do it well! Small things, such as mopping the floor, will be dragged three times until the floor can reflect his shadow. For major events, such as holding an event, once the school leaders thought that this event would affect the official image too much and decided to cancel it. A friend, talking to three leaders in turn, voluntarily admitted that he was not considerate when planning activities, and could plan another one to make up for this deficiency. Finally, he successfully held two nights of activities. Faced with so many things and difficulties, his whole temperament has become much more calm, and he speaks like a mature boss and is regarded as a male god by us. three
No matter whether you have experienced the naked betrayal of your best friend or good friend, or the bad words of your teachers and classmates, you must learn to accept them. TA actually wanted to apologize and make up with you afterwards. One of my psychological counselors once told me that if you encounter a similar situation, please tell him: "I forgive you, but we will only be ordinary friends." If we meet other people's malice and they apologize to you afterwards, please stay calm and try to learn to accept their apologies. Sometimes we can choose to forgive them. But certainly not when it never happened. A mature person will not show negative emotions on his face. They will accept the apology of the wrong person, even if it hurts and looks harmonious, but you know in your heart that you will never get back to the good state before. Mature people know that quarreling and hitting people can't solve the problem, and the injury that should have happened has already happened. Why waste your breath? So they learned tolerance and understanding, which is a relief for him and himself, and they will never contact again in the future. Mature people can't avoid all the problems in your life, but they can improve your temperament and problem-solving ability.