She said: success does not lie in how much money we have, nor in owning a car, a house or a ticket. The real success is that no matter how many people say no to themselves, we can choose the life we want!
20 years old, a little confused. Now, just like Sister Fang Qi in college, I think only cars, houses and tickets are the real success.
Maybe, as she said, our ideals are not pure enough, and our reality is not thorough enough.
But when I went to see her speech again, I suddenly understood what she meant.
Before coming into contact with the society, when we still had the title that can be forgiven like children, young people thought that having money meant having everything. Only houses, cars and tickets are our only sense of security.
However, we forget the premise of these substances.
Success requires self-struggle, as do cars, houses and tickets. When there is no background and no father to spell, you can only rely on yourself.
However, there will be various obstacles at this time.
What should I do after graduation?
Do you want to stay in the big city and continue to drift or go back to your hometown and live a life of nine to five with no end in sight? Do you want to continue wandering around the world for your ideal or choose a stable life according to your parents' wishes?
These are all unknowns.
However, young people want to be affirmed and their families can understand us, even if it is just a trivial greeting. But this world is very realistic, accompanied by more negations, but you can't, girls should be steady. ...
Faced with the pressure of these words, we collapsed.
So, I understand what Sister Fang Qi said is real success.
Fang Qi, a 22-year-old sister, said that the real success is that no matter how many people sell you so-called life experience, the reality is cruel, and you can firmly choose the life you want! Real success is that you can stick to what you like, no matter how many people deny you! The most regrettable thing in life is never failure, but I could have failed!
Now I am 20 years old, and two years later, I will also face the pressure of being 22 years old:
Do you choose to wander in big cities or return to your hometown to live a stable life after graduation? Do you pursue your dreams after graduation or do you live the rest of your life according to your parents' wishes? After graduation, should we compromise with reality or bravely fight against the world alone? ...
This world is very realistic, my ideal is not pure enough, but it is impossible to realize it in the end.
However, I still want to pursue the life I want!
Fang Qi, 26, now lives the life she wants! What the 22-year-old said at the beginning has become a reality.
The 22-year-old said: We were born at the end of last century. We have our own definition of the world and our own ideas. We are not another generation, we are another kind of people. We don't respect rules and stability. We are eager to be different. We are eager to live a high-class life! We don't want to live an ordinary life, and we don't want to be a decent ordinary person!
26-year-old Fang Qi lived an enviable life and realized her wish to visit the world! At the age of 26, she has her own car and room ticket, and she has an acceptable life. She has lived the life she wants!
At the age of 20, I am sometimes confused and anxious. Instead, a lot of hair loss and white hair quietly turned white. I dare not tell anyone about my future, because when I don't have any strength, I choose to build my hair.
My ideal or dream is far away, but it is also realistic to change my way of thinking. Perhaps this is the warning that society has brought us.
We have been studying for so many years, but no one has ever told us how to choose after graduation. There is no class to teach us how to survive in this realistic society. All this is unknown, and young people need to explore, explore and find step by step. ...
However, I want to say to all the college students who graduated in 2022 like me, and to all those who will be confused at the crossroads of life: Please bravely choose the life you want, even if we end up with nothing, even if we are broken, so what? Because we are choosing the life we like, because we have the age that others don't have, because we are another kind of person!
After more than 600 days, I will stand at the crossroads of life, but at that time, I will bravely fight alone with the world, because I will defend my dream until the reality can come up with something I can accept. At that time, I will see the most wonderful place in the world!